tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57678162024-03-17T23:03:31.395-04:00Magnificent OctopusInky and tentacledIsabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.comBlogger2717125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-39657366214760791762024-02-06T12:35:00.000-05:002024-02-06T12:35:51.574-05:00Boredom is meditation<blockquote><p>Everything that happens inside you during the time you remain seated, silent and motionless, is meditation. [...] Boredom is meditation. The pains in your knees, back, and neck are meditation. The rumbling of your stomach is meditation. The feeling that you're wasting your time with bogus spirituality is meditation. The telephone call that you prepare in your head and the desire to get up and make it are meditation. Resisting this desire is meditation — giving in to it isn't though, of course. That's all. Nothing more.</p></blockquote><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlbWvTM7TVeUQjRhnSyKIyixI3rCNbH0IUisb-SkBW9CtKAopbjkOI5w8miZLDoA_m3ByCmK7jeTVP886UcIVamOWqNTQRDriYfVQaj-kiPG32Z1-CuEgUUzh6q-OTa20rZ_LtWn3S_SbHtN1igaXbVA4kOt2yjDjkA6Kr3eMPssWhmCGdnS_3/s1350/CarrereEmmanuel_Yoga.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1350" data-original-width="1080" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlbWvTM7TVeUQjRhnSyKIyixI3rCNbH0IUisb-SkBW9CtKAopbjkOI5w8miZLDoA_m3ByCmK7jeTVP886UcIVamOWqNTQRDriYfVQaj-kiPG32Z1-CuEgUUzh6q-OTa20rZ_LtWn3S_SbHtN1igaXbVA4kOt2yjDjkA6Kr3eMPssWhmCGdnS_3/w320-h400/CarrereEmmanuel_Yoga.png" width="320" /></a></div>I like Emmanuel Carrère. I've been meaning to read <i>Yoga</i> for some time. I've been meaning to read a bunch of things by him for some time. On reflection, I realize that I've read only rather a small sampling of his work — a novel, a memoir, and an erotic essay. That novel, however, <i>The Moustache</i>, deeply affected me, and I would rank it as a favourite. Another book of Carrère's goes by a title I made up myself for a collection of stories I'd imagined while waiting on the subway platform (alas, I'll find another title if I ever write those stories). It seems to me that we, Emmanuel and I, have compatible views of the world; we ask similar questions of the world and of ourselves.<p></p><p>I've always found yoga interesting (since I first experienced it at age maybe 11), and I enjoy practicing it (although I've never pursued it regularly let alone zealously, and I am currently out of the habit altogether). Like Carrère, I think of yoga not as a form of gymnastics, but as an introspective exercise, dare I say spiritual (though "spiritual" feels too intangible); I'd like to call it a way of being, but that invokes too much a granola lifestyle, some kind of mindfulness, meditation of the body (those are my words, not Carrère's).</p><blockquote><p>The body has three hundred joints. The blood circulates through more than sixty thousand miles of arteries, veins, and capillaries. There are forty-six miles of nerves. Unfolded, the surface of the lungs would cover a soccer field. Little by little, yoga aims to become acquainted with all of this. To fill it all with consciousness, energy, and the consciousness of energy.</p></blockquote><p>Yoga, for Carrère, is a form of meditation (or is it vice versa?), classified along with tai chi. He offers several definitions of meditation (but not of yoga), about two dozen or so, though I'm too lazy now to search them out and count them. Most of them variations on a theme, refinements. My favourite may be this: </p><blockquote><p>observing the points of contact between what is oneself and what is not oneself.</p></blockquote><p>The language of yoga fascinates me. I once started drafting a blog post about it. Those soft-toned phrases, less instructions than incantations. Open your heart. Lead with your heart. Root down to the earth with the three corners of your foot. Put your mind in your feet. Breathe into your cells. Create more space inside. (Inside of what exactly? And more space for what?) The meditation guide tells me, "The body is designed to move, the mind is designed to wander," while I am expected (by whom?) to restrain the body from moving and the mind from wandering.</p><div>This book, Carrère's <i>Yoga</i>, is not about those things. Not obviously, anyway. Had I known what this book was about, I might not have read it. At least, not now. It's mostly about a breakdown Carrère suffered, lengthy and intense, sandwiched between the Charlie Hebdo shootings and his time in Greece giving writing classes to (mostly) Iraqi refugees. While breaking from reality fascinates me, and it is the subject of much of the fiction I choose to read, real-life accounts of severe depression aren't really my thing. </div><p>Nevertheless.</p><p>Carrère embarks on a meditation retreat in a remote corner of France — 10 days of silence. (This kind of journey has a great deal of appeal to me, and I occasionally indulge in researching such opportunities.) </p><blockquote><p>The question — and this isn't the first time I'm asking it — is whether there's an incompatibility, or even a contradiction, between the practice of meditation and my trade, which is to write. Over the next ten days, will I watch my thoughts go by without becoming attached to them, or will I instead try to hold on to them, which is the exact opposite of meditation? Will I spend the whole time taking mental notes? Will the meditator be observing the writer, or the writer observing the meditator?</p></blockquote><p>Early on it becomes clear he doesn't make it through to the end, and we wonder why he breaks the silence, is it the silence that breaks him? In fact, his retreat comes to an end due to entirely external factors. He is called away on a matter related to the shootings, of which he and the other 100 or so retreat participants were entirely ignorant, while everyone else in the country was actively distraught. The taxi driver offers some perspective: "If you'd known, what would it have changed?"</p><p>Behind the scenes are a crumbling marriage and a transportative love affair that came to an unexpected end. Carrère is diagnosed as bipolar and sinks deep: long-term hospitalization, ketamine, electroconvulsive therapy. </p><blockquote><p>For everyone, being in love is a sort of manic phase, the most desirable of manic phases. [...] If I don't want to cause suffering, love is now forbidden to me. No more love. No more enchantment of being in love, the best thing in the world.</p></blockquote><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigiDFuywMXuNUpH2Uo8eEJU3sUNRqu6OO2Pjy-0l7mYHt13EpPciOUXH-0whjMxva3PNbupiBPb7pUWyC1rb-T-mL-L-BIrT3_-_oJrEEFNw8KdD9kDL9ikmM7OfJUwZ6bGHG_R0dNzJVKhOfh48efhISLstuq9qgBElqVwJqX5NobyLFinJSf/s2000/giorgio-de-chirico-obelisk-art-history.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1667" data-original-width="2000" height="267" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigiDFuywMXuNUpH2Uo8eEJU3sUNRqu6OO2Pjy-0l7mYHt13EpPciOUXH-0whjMxva3PNbupiBPb7pUWyC1rb-T-mL-L-BIrT3_-_oJrEEFNw8KdD9kDL9ikmM7OfJUwZ6bGHG_R0dNzJVKhOfh48efhISLstuq9qgBElqVwJqX5NobyLFinJSf/s320/giorgio-de-chirico-obelisk-art-history.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Carrère comes out of the hospital and ends up on a Greek island, we're not entirely sure how, and maybe neither is he. Everything seems a little dulled. It seems to me that he dwells on love, or the lack of love, or the desire to love, the inability to love. He describes a story told by <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roger_Caillois">Roger Caillois</a> in <i>The Uncertainty That Comes from Dreams</i>, an arrangement between lovers (that resonates with me as ideal):<p></p><blockquote><p>In this bubble of space and time, totally sheltered from the outside world, everything is desire, softness, tranquility, understanding between bodies, murmured conversation. They both know that nothing like this would be possible if they lived together, as they've sometimes thought of doing. It's in secrecy that their love unfolds, and they both believe that, protected in this way, it will last forever.</p></blockquote><p>Then one day, he can't find the street where she lives, or any trace of her. He realizes none of it was real, it was all a dream — but the distress is real.</p><p>(Tangent. Some <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/help-i-dreamed-my-colleague-again-philonomist-en/">thoughts</a> relevant to me right here, right now: "Dreams are extremely intimate: to encounter our work life there is to suffer the invasion of the professional at the very heart of our personal life.")</p><p>Ultimately, I believe this book, <i>Yoga</i>, is about love. I think love is a kind of meditation (or is it vice versa?). Maybe because love, at its best (worst?), blurs those points of contact between oneself and not oneself.</p><div>Carrère reflects on the successes of his life,</div><blockquote><p>But the essential, which is love, would have escaped me. I was loved, yes, but I had not learned how to love — or hadn't been able to, which is the same thing. No one had been able to rest in complete confidence in my love and I would not rest, at the end, in anyone else's. </p></blockquote><p>And that is his greatest tragedy (and maybe mine). I believe the enchantment of being in love really is the best thing in the world. When we don't have it, a survival mechanism kicks in; we delude ourselves into believing it's not so important. But love is everything. </p><p><a href="https://cdn.penguin.co.uk/dam-assets/books/9781787333215/9781787333215-sample.pdf">Excerpt</a>.</p><p><b>To do </b><br />Consider "<a href="https://unpeudesciencefiction.wordpress.com/2015/07/30/recession-george-langelaan/">Recession</a>," by George Langelaan.<br />Track down <i>The Uncertainty That Comes from Dreams</i>, by Roger Caillois.<br />Take up tai chi (again).<br />Explore the work of <a href="https://www.artnews.com/feature/giorgio-de-chirico-why-is-he-famous-1202687371/">Giorgio de Chirico</a>. <br /></p><p>Remember Glenn Gould's maxim: "The purpose of art is not the release of a momentary ejection of adrenaline but is, rather, the gradual, lifelong construction of a state of wonder and serenity."</p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-36595710960942850732024-01-30T14:28:00.000-05:002024-01-30T14:28:15.836-05:00What is history?<p><a href="https://www.penguinrandomhouse.ca/books/254786/same-bed-different-dreams-by-ed-park/9780812998979/excerpt">What is history?</a> So it is asked, repeatedly and pointedly, in <i>Same Bed Different Dreams</i> (no comma), by <a href="https://ed-park.com/">Ed Park</a>, a readably maximalist metafictional alternate "history" of Korea positing that the Provisional Government established during Japan's occupation of Korea operates to this day, its ultimate aim being a unified Korea. Fact, perception, memory, imagination. Drawing connections and filling in the blanks.</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWybVTemvww8tPpJEto5s5vJS3NNZtePJAiB3rR1ebLdaWdLpk4cZj4WofyMj6FccrimNnNivYEO-0OL1uhsdeg6CuUynRCi5G5pOFX_yc8osfQvfTed1mFWbuJpbx8WKIpEPavTGFX_NtAT3x8c9hja45zQtS9r1pukGNSF4xV-7sEiOZWkUb/s1000/ParkEd_SameBedDifferentDreams.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="658" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWybVTemvww8tPpJEto5s5vJS3NNZtePJAiB3rR1ebLdaWdLpk4cZj4WofyMj6FccrimNnNivYEO-0OL1uhsdeg6CuUynRCi5G5pOFX_yc8osfQvfTed1mFWbuJpbx8WKIpEPavTGFX_NtAT3x8c9hja45zQtS9r1pukGNSF4xV-7sEiOZWkUb/w264-h400/ParkEd_SameBedDifferentDreams.jpg" width="264" /></a></div>Pop quiz (in the guise of mandatory corporate security training):<p></p><blockquote><p>After Japan's defeat in World War II, Korea was divided into North and South across the 38th parallel</p></blockquote><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0px 0px 0px 40px; padding: 0px;"><blockquote><p>A. by someone in the U.S. State Department who had to find a map in National Geographic because he wasn't exactly sure where Korea was.</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>B. and the animosity between the Soviet-backed North and U.S.-backed South led to the Korean War — the "Forgotten War."</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>C. where no border existed before.</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>D. <i>or was it?!</i></p></blockquote></blockquote><p><i></i></p><p>I read most of this book two-handedly, in one fist my ereader, in the other my phone, ready to check names and events against popularly recorded history (and I really messed up my algorithms in the process). The problem with reading alternate history is knowing enough actual history to be able to discern the deviations, and to be honest, what little knowledge I have about Korea is limited to K-pop and M*A*S*H</p><p>"It's said that the Korean Provisional Government is more a state of mind than an actual governing body." Park reveals foundational members, secret members, anticipatory members, and undercover operatives of the Korean Provisional Government (KPG), among them Isabella Bird, Leon Czolgosz (assassin of President McKinley), poet Yi Sang, Harold Sakata (who portrayed Bond villain Oddjob), Douglas MacArthur, Marilyn Monroe, Jesus Christ, Theresa Hak Kyung Cha, Ronald Reagan, Younghill Kang, Thomas Wolfe, Maxwell Perkins, Richard E. Kim, and Philip Roth.</p><div>The history of the KPG is presented in the form of a manuscript titled <i>Same Bed, Different Dreams</i> (with a translator's note about deleting the comma), read by writer Soon Sheen, whose day job, much like mine, mostly consists of navigating (sometimes literally) a techmegacorp, and trying to figure out what the hell their job actually consists of.</div><p>Park's <i>Same Bed</i> also asks (literally), "What is a book?" Concerning Syngman Rhee's <i>The Spirit of Independence</i>, one of the secret bibles of the KPG,</p><blockquote><p>Few readers can remember where all the chapters are, which means the book is often encountered out of order. More important than the book's contents is the fact of its existence: that it has been composed in extremis, cut up, and concealed.</p></blockquote><p>This novel is a celebration of fiction, intertextuality, and, in a roundabout way, good editing. "The problem with being a good copy editor is that the world will always be in error."</p><div>One main narrative thread concerns the sci-fi series <i>2333</i> (so named either to honour the fictional author's wife's birthdate, or to call out the legendary founding of Korea in 2333 bc; personally, I can't help but think of <i>2666</i>; and apparently in Chinese it's the equivalent of lmao), pulp fiction space adventures written by a PKD-admiring Korean War vet, and serving as inspiration for a couple of game developers, with the resulting software folded into the algorithms of the aforementioned techmegacorp.</div><p>This novel bounces from the tragic (suspicious?) death of Kim Jong Il's little brother at the age of about 4 to the circumstances of the destruction in 1983 of Korean Air Lines Flight 007 by Soviet Air Forces.</p><p>Despite its concern with Korea, it's dense with Americana. It follows Betsy Palmer (who eventually starred in <i>Friday the 13th</i>, which has an imagined backstory rooted in the Korean War and its aimless violence can be seen as an allegory of American intervention; also one of Kim Jong Il's favourite movies). It trails Ronald Reagan (who ratted out communists and eventually became president). It documents their encounters on gameshow I've Got a Secret. It plays <a href="https://youtu.be/F7Yssn7m_og?si=11bOTaVFHGiHMsE3">JFA</a> on a loop (that's punk band Jodie Foster's Army, whose name was inspired by John Hinkley Jr, who attempted to assassinate Reagan).</p><p>(Palmer also dated James Dean, regarding whom we have this wonderful sentence: "Half of him is falling apart at the seams while the other half insists there are no seams.")</p><p>Also hockey lore. One short chapter division is named after my hometown, being where Tim Horton crashed and died (and I've been craving a cruller since reading those pages). Because of course <i>Same Bed</i> covers the history of the Buffalo Sabres, whose very existence is tied to the KPG, evidenced through their 1974 11th-round draft pick — "nonexistent" Taro Tsujimoto of the Tokyo Katanas (why are they called the "sabres" anyway?), and culminating in Park's dramatization of the <a href="https://youtu.be/BBXA-e2AB3g?si=0td5qQEBUdODnJVA">fog game</a>, featuring a bat swooping down from the arena rafters. Apparently, you can't make this stuff up.</p><p>I am inspired to see <i>Friday the 13th</i>, a film I didn't think I'd ever watch, even though <i>Same Bed</i> has given away the entire plot and ending. </p><blockquote><p>Yura insists that the film is as deep and beautiful and disquieting as anything he's seen. That it's a dream masquerading as the ultimate horror film. A poem of grief. </p></blockquote><p>It was early pages when I gave up on grasping the intricacies of occupational and international politics, and simply gave myself over to this wild ride, a distorted fun-house version of history laden with conspiracy. Park performs pure magic.</p><p><b>To do</b><br />Procure a copy of <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dictee"><i>Dictee</i></a>.<br />Watch <i>Friday the 13th</i>.</p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-74437529162932298642023-12-28T20:16:00.154-05:002023-12-30T12:38:20.827-05:00It was a relief to have the option to fully peace out of reality<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOsKZbFGCBnH6cH2LGJp5jmILgFwgfGEdz0tHjBVKtaX5lGlVVIt0P11PxJ23322cy85JgVgdTGo2B7QK0o4RAQnRycJe8Oq1s9z2mQwQYCg4CLQXPPLbSQGuQu6nknhK3vhYsKoTJu4Spa7jvm11RY3sEn4uAH23C72zf99XW5qs0v-vZARXY/s400/ClineEmma_TheGuest.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="400" data-original-width="263" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOsKZbFGCBnH6cH2LGJp5jmILgFwgfGEdz0tHjBVKtaX5lGlVVIt0P11PxJ23322cy85JgVgdTGo2B7QK0o4RAQnRycJe8Oq1s9z2mQwQYCg4CLQXPPLbSQGuQu6nknhK3vhYsKoTJu4Spa7jvm11RY3sEn4uAH23C72zf99XW5qs0v-vZARXY/w263-h400/ClineEmma_TheGuest.jpg" width="263" /></a></div><p></p><blockquote><p>Simon whistled, slowing down to look.</p><p>"It's that left turn," he said. "It's the worst."</p><p>"Maybe everyone was fine." Alex's voice sounded brittle: she tried to soften it.</p><p>"Doubtful." Simon was somber, shaking his head, though Alex detected a note of excitement. "No one's walking away from that alive."</p><p>Even though Alex understood that they were driving in Simon's car, and even though Alex understood that she had only had a fender bender that afternoon, a minor finder bender, Alex had the sudden feeling, for whatever reason, that she had been inside the white car. That she had died, here on the highway. It was a dumb thought, but she couldn't shake it. Maybe she was going crazy. At the same time, she knew she would never go crazy — which was worse. She'd been almost jealous of the people she'd known in the city she'd totally cracked up, spiraled into some other realm. It was a relief to have the option to fully peace out of reality.</p></blockquote><p></p><i>The Guest</i>, by Emma Cline, starts at the beach, a struggle against the undertow. Alex is always the guest, not even an invitee, arm candy, but invisible, sometimes a plus one, sometimes a hanger-on, always an outsider trying not to be caught out. "A sort of inert piece of social furniture — only her presence was required, the general size and shape of a young woman."<p></p><p>She's a grifter, a twenty-first century Holly Golightly on steroids, only the steroids are tequila and painkillers and sleeping pills, skimmed from other people's cupboards. Like if the <i>Talented Mr. Ripley</i> had a <i><a href="https://magnificentoctopus.blogspot.com/2020/09/there-is-nothing-more-heartbreaking.html">Year of Rest and Relaxation</a></i>.</p><p>Alex has clearly been cultivating a sugar relationship with Simon, and there are hints that her past is less seemly. </p><p>But Alex misbehaves at a party, and Simon sends her packing. She's sure this is just a temporary glitch though; she just needs to get through a few days till the timing and setting are right for them to be reunited.</p><blockquote><p>So: figure out some interim spot where Jack could drop her off, and then make her way back here. She reminded herself to note the address before they left. Make sure she understood how to open the gate. Logistics were already crowding in, making her tired — this is what people like Simon got to avoid, the constant churn of anxieties somehow both punishingly urgent and punishingly boring.</p></blockquote><p>How exhausting it must be. To always be attentive, read the room, course-correct. Always thinking ahead, moving things forward, nudging them toward the desired outcome. Alex always pictures the future state. Until she can't.</p><p>We follow Alex through six days, always swimming, never getting anywhere.</p><p>That ending though. Drawing comparisons to both <i>The Awakening</i> and The Sopranos, it's open to interpretation, and I think it's perfect. Total psychotic break. What's that behind her?</p><p><b>Review</b><br /><a href="Worse for Cashing In: On Emma Cline’s “The Guest”">LARB</a>: Worse for Cashing In: On Emma Cline's "The Guest"</p><p><b>Excerpts </b><br />From <a href="https://www.penguinrandomhouse.ca/books/251795/the-guest-by-emma-cline/9780593678510/excerpt">Chapter 1</a><br />From <a href="https://www.vogue.com/article/emma-cline-novel-the-guest-excerpt">Chapter 2</a> </p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-15055009726186787012023-12-26T12:32:00.109-05:002023-12-29T20:16:50.624-05:00A light tale that becomes heavy<blockquote><p>Why would you want to be with someone if they didn't change your life? She said that, and Julio was there when she said it: that life only made sense if you found someone who would change it, who would destroy your life as you knew it.</p></blockquote><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEje3QzC7IaBCn_z-rDI3JdpgUoS6RoNDtOfnwMfcrWGUNSoxYSzaodb-UM6Rg2CS1q6Ccu0Q_8fHbZAs_9DzWPYgEHytjH_l1fpMbgrjPokEfC02XIm3wMkcmamEvQdT8DAUvXpRROToJk9zAx_qEpriWHkx-5ld_1jIyvCPvxciFU_LECY6Uu2/s1000/ZambraAlejandro_Bonsai.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="655" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEje3QzC7IaBCn_z-rDI3JdpgUoS6RoNDtOfnwMfcrWGUNSoxYSzaodb-UM6Rg2CS1q6Ccu0Q_8fHbZAs_9DzWPYgEHytjH_l1fpMbgrjPokEfC02XIm3wMkcmamEvQdT8DAUvXpRROToJk9zAx_qEpriWHkx-5ld_1jIyvCPvxciFU_LECY6Uu2/w263-h400/ZambraAlejandro_Bonsai.jpg" width="263" /></a></div>[I want someone to change my life. Again. Turn my life upside down. Make me question every moment I've lived until now. I think of all the times my life has been destroyed.]<p></p><p><i><a href="https://fitzcarraldoeditions.com/books/bonsai">Bonsai</a></i>, by Alejandro Zambra, is a quick and beautiful read, a lazy morning in bed, inspiring a hazy recollection of past lovers.</p><p>We start at the end. We know that it ends, and that Emilia dies. In a study group for Spanish Grammar, they ended up sleeping together. Emilia and Julio have never read Proust, but they lie about it to each other. Perhaps the deception binds them.</p><p>They read to each other in bed, and enact the texts, interpreting them erotically. And then they read Macedonio Fernández's "Tantalia," and it breaks them. It's about a couple who buy a plant together as a symbol of their love, but rather than risk it dying, they decide to lose it in a crowd of plants (<a href="https://t.co/tJiqbv9Uzh">starting on page 111</a>, "the suffocated scream of a suffering root in the earth"). So now Emilia and Julio have the awareness of the inevitability of their relationship's end, each of them individually and alone sensing it. To preserve the power of their love, they are impelled to abandon it.</p><p>Emilia goes to Spain, becomes more completely like how she is. An old friend think she looks bad, depressed, like a junkie.</p><p>Zambra keeps insisting that this is Emilia's story, but it's not. We know how her story ends, that's all. </p><p>Julio fails to land a transcription job with a bigshot novelist. He lies about it to a woman he's sleeping with it. He makes up the story of the novel to tell her, a variation of his and Emilia's love story. His life begins to take the shape of the story he's created.</p><p>Bonsai. Delicate in appearance, but strong. Small, but carefully cultivated. A world in miniature. Old. Maybe these are the best relationships. A beautiful, impossible artifice.</p><blockquote><p>Emilia and Julio's was a relationship riddled with truths, with personal disclosures that quickly built up a complicity they strove to see as unassailable. This is, then, a light tale that becomes heavy. This is the story of two student enthusiasts of the truth, aficionados of deploying words what seem like truth, of smoking endless cigarettes, and of enclosing themselves within the violent complacency of those who believe themselves better and purer than others, than that immense and detestable group called <i>everyone else</i>. </p></blockquote><blockquote><p>They quickly learned to read the same way, to think similarly, and to hide their differences. Very soon they comprised a vain private world. For a time, at least, Julio and Emilia managed to meld into a single entity. They were, in short, happy.</p></blockquote><p><a href="https://lithub.com/bonsai/">Excerpt</a>.</p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-28420664380496591712023-12-06T11:20:00.001-05:002023-12-10T13:08:36.315-05:00The contour lines of her own body had dissolved<blockquote><p>The camera, apparatus of the desirous gaze, is made up of a shutter released upon a scene which one feels certain can never be fully contained within a 35 mm frame by a finger that is determined to live in the present moment, full as that moment is of affection, curiosity, and regret toward all those people living through the world's uncontainable time and space. The determination, the hesitation, the joy and fear of the moment when the finger releases the shutter are not about any critical consistency of a journalistic nature, but rather <i>the ethics of the person holding the camera</i>, who, with the rapid movement of a finger, must make an instantaneous decision with that desirous gaze. </p></blockquote><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjolKjXzFtCO9sOE6zmA-DumzECOlR_uDarJzm0qOaQvq60sw_7xb8vavGmqQnY4FHYbro74SUxiJKLLCCtgsKMlOZH8N2Vs4qtymRGfsQlOpyyIgDWcnb4KicV8cY0XKVGEqeq81XkHqC7hV1O7PkX7I0opbkgypppO5TzAZn1t5kZcX6yh_W1/s1400/BartuszovaMaria.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="945" data-original-width="1400" height="216" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjolKjXzFtCO9sOE6zmA-DumzECOlR_uDarJzm0qOaQvq60sw_7xb8vavGmqQnY4FHYbro74SUxiJKLLCCtgsKMlOZH8N2Vs4qtymRGfsQlOpyyIgDWcnb4KicV8cY0XKVGEqeq81XkHqC7hV1O7PkX7I0opbkgypppO5TzAZn1t5kZcX6yh_W1/s320/BartuszovaMaria.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>I wake early this morning, before daylight, and not being able to fall back asleep, I play Wordle and then Connections, and glance at the forums for the latest developments in work gossip. Finally the sun comes up over the horizon, I get up to pee, and I raise the blinds on the sliding doors from the bedroom to the fire escape, I lower them only part way at bedtime to block the glare from the streetlight that is in my direct line of vision when I lie in bed, why is there a streetlight in the ruelle anyway? I crawl back into bed because it's still early and I pick up the novel I've been reading since forever, <i><a href="https://www.ndbooks.com/book/mild-vertigo/">Mild Vertigo</a></i>, by Mieko Kanai, I swear there was still snow on the ground when I started, it came with me to Rhossili Bay in the late spring, on which vacation I read exactly nothing, except only the opening pages of Yukio Mishima's <i>Star</i>, which lovely edition was an impulse purchase at the Tate Modern, I managed to squeeze in a visit, specifically to see an exhibit of <a href="https://www.tate.org.uk/whats-on/tate-modern/maria-bartuszova/exhibition-guide">Maria Bartuszova's plaster work</a>, all the lovely little Penguins lined up at the checkout as I paid for my solitary souvenir postcard (my studio is beginning to look a little like this, with experimental plaster fragments, the card now tacked to the wall as inspiration), and I couldn't resist starting to read it on my way back to Paddington before embarking west, but on this trip I only walked and walked and rested, and walked and sang and danced, and rested, only on two evenings did I opt to watch Netflix (Black Mirror, as it happens), otherwise quickly dropping off to sleep.<p></p><p>And <i>Mild Vertigo</i> came with me to Kabelvåg, but on this trip appropriately enough I was reading <i>A House in Norway</i>, by Vigdis Hjorth, and also not traveling alone so more likely to chat over a drink than to sit quietly with a book, although we shopped for books, and this included a miniquest for books by Jon Fosse who was announced Nobel laureate at about the same time as I landed in Oslo, the quest requirement being that it be in English and not be a behemoth, I very quickly settled on <i>Aliss at the Fire</i> as a small yet sufficiently representative work, I'm so tired of reading privileged self-indulgent white men who are somehow above the slash of an editor's pen, I didn't find a copy, but I've since ordered a Fitzcarraldo edition, and as I write this I glance up and note the other postcard on my studio wall from a show in Bergen, <a href="https://www.kunsthall.no/en/exhibitions/ahmed-umar-glowing-phalanges/">Ahmed Umar</a>, whose polished, organic sculptural objects were all mounted on plaster casts of his hand in prayer emerging from the wall, what am I to do with my casts, the malformed latex gloves, make some comment on women's work and domesticity?</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVtHIpAl81cdoxsCkr7cA5aH9lk3XObmlLJzzra4V0bRt2WbcMh8-EAphxF_dcD8VWjAKTyayG4wy1Tc4V1-TzDJ9JeeCTNvjFDv31So0JR31EjNqo4vPMHKl_sYxh_Zvx5v3RXuNkPzF0h4jeB59Oyb9Mvni7R5skL_qF9RkLMiuS3imyIx9-/s736/KuwabaraKineo.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="529" data-original-width="736" height="288" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVtHIpAl81cdoxsCkr7cA5aH9lk3XObmlLJzzra4V0bRt2WbcMh8-EAphxF_dcD8VWjAKTyayG4wy1Tc4V1-TzDJ9JeeCTNvjFDv31So0JR31EjNqo4vPMHKl_sYxh_Zvx5v3RXuNkPzF0h4jeB59Oyb9Mvni7R5skL_qF9RkLMiuS3imyIx9-/w400-h288/KuwabaraKineo.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>It's only in the last few weeks that I've been reading <i>Mild Vertigo</i> again in earnest, and hoping my reading mojo is back, coaxing it back to life, my only regret being that it's not a Fitzcarraldo edition, I love French flaps, released coincidentally on the day I'd returned home from Wales and became aware of it only when my daughter had friends over for her birthday, and I'd grabbed my book and a drink intending to move to a quiet corner and give them some space, when one of the girls said she had that book only a Fitzcarraldo, I wonder now if it includes Kate Zambreno's afterword, because that's a stroke of genius, juxtaposing her essay over Kanai's text, which similarly lays a narrative over and around a creative essay about an exhibition of Nobuyoshi Araki and Kineo Kuwabara photography (loosely positioning them as journalist vs artist, respectively, characterized by cruelty vs compassion, respectively). I read Zambreno when I vacationed in Mexico, was that two years ago already, I don't think I ever wrote about it, it felt like research, preparatory, an immersion in process, when all I wanted to do was write, maybe I was heartbroken, probably I was, reading and writing were always therapy (do I no longer require therapy of this kind?). Here Zambreno writes, "I don't want to make it personal [...] but how else, to show the interior of an experience of a novel like this, how a novel invades you, as much as you invade it?" I love this, in fact, often the invasion interests me more than the novel itself.<p></p><p>I read in bed this morning and doze off about once per page, I'm late for work, I don't care, this is blissful, occasionally my phone buzzes and I glance at the message. I'm not sure why I was invited to this group chat, the girls from university, it makes me slightly uncomfortable, I moved away from that town decades ago, I am still friends with them to differing degrees, although one of them, I barely know her at all; but now I know that her marriage is breaking down. I met them for dinner a year ago, and before that, never as a group, I wonder how they came to flock together in recent years, college days solidifying into a pillar supporting their midlife lives. I feel less successful than all of them, but possibly more interesting, my career has been more varied, I've traveled, certainly I'm better read. And now they are planning a girls' night without me, only the chat group is labeled “Girl's night” and maybe it is the misplaced apostrophe that has provoked my antagonism. Which girl gets the night? I don't see much similarity at all between them and my current friend group, where I feel among equals even while I stand in awe of them, I am so lucky to have such smart and interesting friends. It wouldn't occur to me to share an essay or an article with the university girls, really I should just admit that I don’t know them at all, even though I miss them, the friends that they used to be in a forgotten place in my life.</p><blockquote><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1XkOsF4vP5LkkA3ouL5HOW-6mzTAsBJrPrec_Sh7WDodmgHaFaHOGZruuF4kdER5X4y9phgFKENpn2n4nyFkdrsEJSwAe1o3r4wWdqJx0xxiRduYbFT-32wQDN00LHKXhfHjnE-QU8s0g6_iqIkV4Y9ht24KvEluyLWbGcRMNiymCI47QGyM6/s522/KanaiMieko_MildVertigo.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="522" data-original-width="338" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1XkOsF4vP5LkkA3ouL5HOW-6mzTAsBJrPrec_Sh7WDodmgHaFaHOGZruuF4kdER5X4y9phgFKENpn2n4nyFkdrsEJSwAe1o3r4wWdqJx0xxiRduYbFT-32wQDN00LHKXhfHjnE-QU8s0g6_iqIkV4Y9ht24KvEluyLWbGcRMNiymCI47QGyM6/w259-h400/KanaiMieko_MildVertigo.jpg" width="259" /></a></div>[S]he remembered there'd been times when she'd found the prospect of getting in after her husband totally repugnant, it didn't exactly seem dirty to her, she wouldn't go that far, but it was an indisputable fact that when a person was in the bath the sweat that emerged from their body's pores would mingle with the bathwater, and of course she didn't mind that happening when it was her children's sweat, but when she thought about the sweat from her husband's body mixed in with the bathwater it had struck her as something distasteful, that was to be avoided if at all possible. She didn't want to immerse her body in water that contained all the dirt that had oozed out of his pores along with his sweat, she didn't feel that way when they were having sex and their bodies were pressed so tightly together that their was sweat running down in the gap between their two sets of skins, but when she imagined the dirt and sweat that had come from her husband's pores mixing with the dirt and sweat that had come from her own pores within the bathwater, she found it revolting, as though the contour lines of her own body had dissolved and were blending, through the boundary with another body and the pores in the skin, with something else — and worse, these contaminations taking place while immersed in dirty warm water — which left her feeling unpleasant, and slightly sick.<p></p></blockquote><p>If in Zambreno's view Kanai's novel is marked by interiors, her protagonist noting details like texture and spatial relationships, very physical, superficial, and domestic, my life might be delineated by exteriors, bounding a certain stasis, wherever I go there I am, confined to a constant <i>aller-retour</i>, my body may scream to travel but I always come back, the universe revolves around this single point of my being, defining in relief the compulsion to get outside of myself. I attended a dance performance last week that revisited the myth of Tantalus, who stood in a pool of water beneath a tree but when he bent to drink the water receded and when he reached for the low-hanging fruit it pulled away; the performer recounted the tale and wondered about staying still, simply not triggering the mechanism (of desire, punishment, capitalism). Yes, I think to myself, rationalizing my life decisions, the trick is to do nothing, then I can't fuck it up.</p><p><a href="https://lithub.com/mild-vertigo/">Excerpt</a>. <br />The Paris Review: <a href="https://www.theparisreview.org/blog/2017/12/14/study-kanai-mieko/">A Study of Kanai Mieko</a></p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-9407417145259249812023-09-10T23:08:00.002-04:002023-09-10T23:08:44.741-04:00Everything tends towards attenuation<blockquote><p>'What happened is the least of it. It's a novel, and once you've finished a novel, what happened in it is of little importance and soon forgotten. What matters are the possibilities and ideas that the novel's imaginary plot communicates to us and infuses us with, a plot that we recall far more vividly than real events and to which we pay far more attention.' That isn't true, or rather, it's sometimes true, but one doesn't always forget what happened, not in a novel that almost everyone knew or knows, even those who have never read it, nor in reality when what happens is actually happening to us and is going to be our story, which could end one way or another with no novelist to decide and independent of anyone else..."</p></blockquote><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMCBaamgLllfQMDA-89NMgYmpFCPqApRBG5zH-YSBtQrqqZdO7zDIW0V5fj2Uh18ycbwQighvQ19Ib-zgIVcfXapC4DuMD1cGOXEvLdfNIFgY54kVkLDD4bP_l4Tt5KWQn1KoUzyjCZKp6rHdk6EkKAc2GYm6OXbNlN3ckkwT1u2cUDXNlwytu/s1000/MariasJavier_TheInfatuations.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="676" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMCBaamgLllfQMDA-89NMgYmpFCPqApRBG5zH-YSBtQrqqZdO7zDIW0V5fj2Uh18ycbwQighvQ19Ib-zgIVcfXapC4DuMD1cGOXEvLdfNIFgY54kVkLDD4bP_l4Tt5KWQn1KoUzyjCZKp6rHdk6EkKAc2GYm6OXbNlN3ckkwT1u2cUDXNlwytu/w270-h400/MariasJavier_TheInfatuations.jpg" width="270" /></a></div>Since January, I have borrowed this book five times. On the latest occasion I renewed it a further two times. So it's been at my fingertips for twenty-one (nonconsecutive) weeks. I tried renewing it again yesterday, just in case, but somehow my request didn't register. But I managed to finish it. Finally I finished <i>The Infatuations</i>, by Javier Marías.<p></p><p>I tagged it to my library wishlist in May 2016. The first borrowing wasn't even, strictly speaking, intentional. I downloaded it as an extra, to bypass a glitch in downloading reserved library ebooks; it may as well be something I'm actually interested in reading, I thought.</p><p>I started reading it in February. Until the next waitlisted book became available. <i>The Infatuations</i>, it seemed, was always available. No harm in letting it expire if I could just check it out again. I read some more in April, but not in June. Some library worker might review my loan history and think I was infatuated, even obsessed, with this book. In July, I decided to read it in earnest and had to go back to the beginning.</p><p>Our protagonist is smitten with a couple, "the Perfect Couple," she knows by sight; they frequent the same café most mornings. Until one day she realizes she hasn't seen them for a while, and learns that the man had been brutally murdered.</p><blockquote><p>"How easy it is for a person simply to vanish into thin air," I thought. "Someone only has to move jobs or house and you'll never know anything more about them, never see them again. All it takes is a change in work schedule. How fragile they are, these connections with people one knows only by sight."</p></blockquote><p>María Dolz is infatuated with the couple, but is also a little in love with them singly, consumed by the details of the death and the imagined life of Miguel Devern, and fascinated by Luisa Alday, with whom she finally exchanges words.</p><blockquote><p>Yes, there are people who cannot bear misfortune. Not because they're frivolous or empty-headed. They're not, of course, immune to grief, and they doubtless experience grief as intensely as anyone else. But they're designed to shake it off more quickly and without too much difficulty, as if they were simply incompatible with such states of mind. It's in their nature to be light-hearted and cheerful and they see no particular prestige in suffering, unlike most of the rest of boring humanity.</p></blockquote><p>The couple had also noticed María as a regular; "the Prudent Young Woman" they called her. At Luisa's home, she meets Javier Díaz-Varela, and speculates about the nature of their relationship, but soon after she herself develops a sexual relationship with him, an infatuation. He in turn seems to have his sights on the widow of his best friend. </p><p>What is fact, what is real, and what is true? What is fiction, what stories do we tell ourselves so we sleep better at night, what explanations are lazy or fantastical, what excuses result from obscure psychological motivations?</p><blockquote><p>In the end, everything tends towards attenuation, sometimes little by little and thanks to great effort and willpower on our part; sometimes with unexpected speed and contrary to our will, while we struggle in vain to keep faces from fading and paling into nothing, and deeds and words from becoming blurred objects that drift about in our memory with the same scant value as those we've read about in novels or seen and heard in films: we don't really care what happen in books and films and forget about them once they're over, although, as Díaz-Varela has said when he spoke to me about Colonel Chabert, they do have the ability to show us what we don't know and what doesn't happen. When someone tells us something, it always seems like a fiction, because we don’t know the story at first hand and can’t be sure it happened, however much we are assured that the story is a true one, not an invention, but real. At any rate, it forms part of the hazy universe of narratives, with their blind spots and contradictions and obscurities and mistakes, all surrounded and encircled by shadows or darkness, however hard they strive to be exhaustive and diaphanous, because they are incapable of achieving either of those qualities.</p></blockquote><p>I think about my various infatuations, how some linger, vanish slowly, others stop suddenly, with no consistency of logic. I think about the boy from the bookshop who used to come buy coffee from me every day at the bakery the summer I was eighteen, until one day I stopped working there and he was gone forever.</p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-12609081027543242092023-07-04T20:11:00.001-04:002023-07-04T20:11:59.272-04:00Silicone mould of complex 3D object<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhXo_rcTmcrxDPk7u8qv2LrEvoye2xu0doCgKquplDam3h5vV7R3ZbQE7HlZF4GsMUQzZRJkRU4meB4_cjuACO2Ch5SXJBFXh_KszRoetlOIccHYKnCsuLunqixsvdLH8z-dngcU_5dNCYvU_Z6YarBfd2uAlfgIL0GNnVFfxFAtabGC1SPzWsq/s4032/IMG-2559.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3024" data-original-width="4032" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhXo_rcTmcrxDPk7u8qv2LrEvoye2xu0doCgKquplDam3h5vV7R3ZbQE7HlZF4GsMUQzZRJkRU4meB4_cjuACO2Ch5SXJBFXh_KszRoetlOIccHYKnCsuLunqixsvdLH8z-dngcU_5dNCYvU_Z6YarBfd2uAlfgIL0GNnVFfxFAtabGC1SPzWsq/s320/IMG-2559.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Woman, closed, or enclosed. Encircling her own body. Pensive, head resting on knee.<p></p><p>I argue in favour of this pose because it's more upright than horizontal (Who has room to keep sculptures of reclining women? Sure, I sculpted a reclining woman, but then I mounted her in an upright position, it's a more effective use of space. Maybe it's me, maybe it has something to do with how tall I am or the space I live in or the precise warp in the lens that is my astigmatism, how I perceive verticality.), and therefore also more fully dimensional, almost a full 360 degrees, not a pose that has a front and no back (like the reclining woman, I had to rely on something other than a visual prompt to complete her back, her backside, the finished piece more a composite than a true depiction of the live model). </p><p>I like that the pose is natural, not contorted. For some reason the art instructor favours extreme torsion, an expression of the artist's torment, she says, but I think it's because she wanted to be a dancer (and failed). Someone else suggests that if I want natural I should look in a mirror; we pay a live model precisely to take advantage of the poses they strike, muscled and flexed. He wants the model to to give him something, show him, inspire him. (But I, I think, am an artist; nothing need be given me, I find it, make something of it, I know where to look, how to look.) </p><p>They want this young Vietnamese woman to embody their classical European sensibilities. Perhaps it was doomed to failure. </p><p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizFdHxAi0DTgwhrpxQ6gnFUwUqIOS5DSDAp9gD1wyUShTHP2O87fSqD_bMPWJCdP4XSWVjsTrJgbFJ6azxjZf3u9CaXLEMsBR7G0hagPS5hbz-DzpRTXahEHlSmQltS_sHGd8DnKTa4-TJCn1d-wKt8y3PHIbZS8ZbocKaTKHHriiJRYKTKICt/s4032/IMG-3652.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em; text-align: center;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizFdHxAi0DTgwhrpxQ6gnFUwUqIOS5DSDAp9gD1wyUShTHP2O87fSqD_bMPWJCdP4XSWVjsTrJgbFJ6azxjZf3u9CaXLEMsBR7G0hagPS5hbz-DzpRTXahEHlSmQltS_sHGd8DnKTa4-TJCn1d-wKt8y3PHIbZS8ZbocKaTKHHriiJRYKTKICt/s320/IMG-3652.jpg" width="240" /></a>I go big (well, bigger than usual), prep an armature. Determined to complete a full body, not a headless torso.</p><p>This model is different from the others, quiet, not a dancer or a circus performer, not body confident. An art student with thick ankles. I sense she is relieved that the agreed-upon pose allows her some modesty.</p><div>Suddenly I realize she is all limbs. I am looking at the space she enfolds. How do I sculpt this vast hollow she protects?</div><div><p>It's no longer an artistic question. It's a geometry problem.</p><p>I watch how others construct their mould, which planes they choose, which points of access. I don't want to be the first to fail, but I fail to understand how this mould will work.</p></div><div>Red clay woman encased in white silicone. The silicone sheathe around her thighs and buttocks is thin and loose, I had to leave it dry before I could apply another coat. In the meantime, the clay lost water, receded into itself, or gravity pulled the mass of still moist clay flesh away from her shroud.</div><p>Plaster shell designed in four parts. (This is the first time I create a mould that is more complex than a front and a back.) It's fragile, in places also too thin (Was a I rushed for time? Did I run out of plaster? Simply, did I lose my touch?), and a thin wedge snaps off, perhaps this small piece is expendable, but the major shell facet breaks in half as I pry it away. </p><p>My blade leaves stab marks along her torso and thighs. I tug at the silicone, and it rips. Repeatedly. </p><p>I fear I cannot save both the clay and the mould. The mould, thin and torn, may not be salvageable. If, on the other had, I preserve the clay, I can attempt another mould. But to repair the clay, I first must release it.</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhW5q4wnxCwfpQ8k8yMiNy4nL83WKtEmJRBSLQnyJJnVV92QbhPxljo5m7wIj5Bi5zh0yGurRyPlGq5dvzcovEwEV_e_FtYr53eOLMOfteT3gtfWdYNiXMaaGunFqm188IUx5icttxAH7eCKJ1trFYmFFTbFaCxL7CNAoyzuVIcJAYl3dPMCHsS/s4032/IMG-3657.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3024" data-original-width="4032" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhW5q4wnxCwfpQ8k8yMiNy4nL83WKtEmJRBSLQnyJJnVV92QbhPxljo5m7wIj5Bi5zh0yGurRyPlGq5dvzcovEwEV_e_FtYr53eOLMOfteT3gtfWdYNiXMaaGunFqm188IUx5icttxAH7eCKJ1trFYmFFTbFaCxL7CNAoyzuVIcJAYl3dPMCHsS/s320/IMG-3657.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Neck fully broken, likely due to drying conditions, not mishandling. The head hangs on by its nervous system of scavenged electrical wires.<p></p><div>The left big toe comes away with the silicone. Her joints crumble, revealing the metallic understructure. </div><p>The geometry problem becomes a matter of physics: how to remove a large silicone mass from between crossed limbs. I dislocate her left shoulder to release the solid white space that her arm describes beside her waist. </p><p>The silicone can be reassembled, bonded with more silicone. It's messy. And if I choose to reinforce any patches, I risk the plaster shell not fitting snuggly. I think it may be usable, but only once.</p><p>I keep the clay moist, but eventually it will dry and crack over its too-robust skeleton, now too big. It would be impossible to remove this armature. (How can I keep the clay from drying and cracking?) I don't know how to add new clay to this old clay that will keep it together rather than pull it apart.</p><p>The air is too humid. Nothing will set, nothing will dry.</p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-10395828004448616332023-04-23T11:04:00.000-04:002023-04-23T11:04:08.358-04:00The lesson stone teaches<blockquote><p>Well, the important thing's not to grasp the rule but to obey it.</p></blockquote><p>Emma Donoghue has written so many books, and I hadn't read any of them. Then <i>Haven</i> came along, and well, monks! and plague!, so I thought it was time. And in the beginning, it was boring. But I plowed on, and still it was boring. And so it went. For fifty pages it bored me, and yet I read on. I near abandoned it, but for an unexpectedly long metro ride and nothing else to read. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMdvjKxKIVc_1pRrhK-IWfxJdWjKCbgQva8hLJlLyz69vgcSq7W2DvW0ijKNfab1QaUw03z8sY3IB9lG_jVNi9lw1vkHDPDxwNfIi-Z86BZPEnDMgkwT2Xl5_p9i37NtT2d3TY3cAG3WdBzsVtsw3VTu9uStq5bSKAdhyH22FvvzbIQVUcog/s899/DonoghueEmma_Haven.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="899" data-original-width="600" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMdvjKxKIVc_1pRrhK-IWfxJdWjKCbgQva8hLJlLyz69vgcSq7W2DvW0ijKNfab1QaUw03z8sY3IB9lG_jVNi9lw1vkHDPDxwNfIi-Z86BZPEnDMgkwT2Xl5_p9i37NtT2d3TY3cAG3WdBzsVtsw3VTu9uStq5bSKAdhyH22FvvzbIQVUcog/w268-h400/DonoghueEmma_Haven.jpg" width="268" /></a></div>It was boring until it was infuriating, and then I couldn't stop.<p></p><p>Artt, the traveling scholar priest has a vison, an instruction to withdraw from the world, accompanied by two monks, and found a retreat. He gathers up his chosen ones, and with some meager provisions they set out by boat, leaving Ireland behind them.</p><p>Artt may be a respected priest, but he is a terrible human being. He prioritizes God and their worship and suffering over food and shelter. Artt's faith beggars belief. That he sacrifices his own life to God's will is his own business, but he seems determined to wear down his monks for some obscure dogma. </p><p></p><blockquote><p>What penance should he set himself to make satisfaction? He could roll in nettles, except that he's seen none here. Lie in cross-vigil? No, stand — that's harder. Or kneel — that's even better punishment. Artt crashes down, in the middle of the Plateau, and holds his arms straight out from his sides, the position of Jesus on the cross. He starts his prayers of contrition. He waits for discomfort to ripen into pain.</p><p>The man who masters himself rules a mighty kingdom. Pain is one way to do it. Those who love Christ, he grants permission to suffer for his sake. Pain's a privilege, a gift, a grace. [...] </p><p>He'd like to level the botched high cross, first thing tomorrow, but he won't. Let it stand as a warning to himself and his monks, a sign of their imperfection, the crippling weight of it. That's the lesson stone teaches: even after it falls, it endures.</p></blockquote><p>A revelation toward the end of the novel is, I think, a cheap trick to propel their circumstances to some kind of resolution. While I appreciate its necessity as a plot device, I think the characterization was hasty and deserved more breathing space, but that could've been an entirely different book. </p><p>If you're looking to feed your hate on seventh-century Catholicism, this is the book for you.</p><p></p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-41028806717270934422023-03-09T08:03:00.007-05:002023-03-11T08:28:49.646-05:00Once the weasels show up, you're done for<blockquote><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhXs-CHfdEt5gm-FdBT2sWQ0SAOy0C8P6np1DJfSjO0K38z-O1MwZ8h2aMxb5k3AxAtKdMY6uqPaOPxcLG98jSH-KO-XLBu9NmkX4hRTpVX9b8pDtBRA8soRZDg3C1PEWvrm-E-rJ5WI2mAwyH7shF4wEDKQxI28yijyhM4EOIAb_mrE88AsA/s499/OyamadaHiroko_WeaselsInTheAttic.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="499" data-original-width="324" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhXs-CHfdEt5gm-FdBT2sWQ0SAOy0C8P6np1DJfSjO0K38z-O1MwZ8h2aMxb5k3AxAtKdMY6uqPaOPxcLG98jSH-KO-XLBu9NmkX4hRTpVX9b8pDtBRA8soRZDg3C1PEWvrm-E-rJ5WI2mAwyH7shF4wEDKQxI28yijyhM4EOIAb_mrE88AsA/w260-h400/OyamadaHiroko_WeaselsInTheAttic.jpg" width="260" /></a></div>"We meet at school, or work, or maybe a store. Wherever it is, there's just a random group of individuals, right? Within that group, you find your mate. If you were in a different group, you'd end up with a different mate, right? But we never dwell on that. We live our lives in the groups we have — in our cities, our countries, even thought we didn't choose them. Know what I mean? We like to tell ourselves it's love, that we're choosing our own partners. But in reality, we're just playing the cards we've been dealt."<p></p></blockquote><p><i><a href="https://www.ndbooks.com/book/weasels-in-the-attic/">Weasels in the Attic</a></i>, by Hiroko Oyamada, is a charming triptych of stories, published separately in Japanese, but collected in this English <a href="https://www.asymptotejournal.com/blog/2022/12/22/everything-is-in-the-atmosphere-david-boyd-on-translating-hiroko-oyamada/">translation</a>. Although authored by a woman, the stories focus on a peculiarly male perspective on maturity, rescinding bachelorhood to settle down, marry, have children, move outside of the city. The order of things. The things we accept we're supposed to do. The man prefers to delay the inevitable; but the woman he chooses must be young and fertile.</p><p>It all feels a bit detached, or maybe just Japanese. Their social interactions depend on small talk, ritual, external signs of status. It's their unseen lives and dreams where things get interesting.</p><p>The exotic fish, the weasels, the meal preparation. Everything feels vaguely symbolic, as if there is real meaning in the decisions and actions we take. Pregnant with possibility, one might say, without ever giving birth — the fertility issues of the narrator and his wife form one unsubtle thread through these stories. </p><blockquote><p>At the time, he didn't know about the weasels [...] "Listen, when you think about buying a house, give it some real thought, okay? Once the weasels show up, you're done for. This never would have happened if we'd moved into one those boxy manufactured houses. Those things are airtight. A fifty-year-old house . . . What the hell was I thinking?" </p></blockquote><p>The weasels struck a chord: It put <a href="https://www.nybooks.com/articles/2022/12/22/houses-of-holes-weasels-in-the-attic-hiroko-oyamada/">Nathaniel Rich</a> in mind of his rat. I have a squirrel. I first heard the noises in December, around the solstice, when the cold set in. There was a scratching, and then a thumping. Frantic scrambling.</p><p>Its initial entry into the internal workings of the building was likely accidental. But now it's a known haven. I've seen the culprit; it moves with purpose. </p><p>(Why did I choose a seventy-year-old building? Because it has character.)</p><p>The noises are random and more occasional now. It's the smell that has become predictable. Whenever the temperature rises above zero, a must wafts through the kitchen from the range hood. Probably old food scraps or nesting material. It's not entirely unpleasant — it's an organic odour, but at least it doesn't smell like death. I turn on the exhaust to reverse the direction.</p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-42437076089307913672023-01-13T20:18:00.002-05:002023-01-13T20:18:28.770-05:00Silence turns your attention away from yourself<blockquote><p>How did silence get such a bad rap? Everybody these days things the world of their own voice, things that by raising that voice, they're doing something. Wrong. Nobody except you cares what you have to say. Silence does not equal complicity; silence equals humility and also practicality. Silence turns your attention away from yourself. Am I talking about the importance of listening? Yeah, sure, a little I suppose, but it's more inward looking, more personal than that. Just stop talking, stop posting, stop tweeting. Shut up. A lot opens up to you, to your mind and your senses, once you do that.</p></blockquote><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVnPcQ9XH8j36WXfBcdjrdO1WK7fJt1tzlQRyuV3g4h5tX6T9tfm-94y3eXjl6XjMcNz4vwhK4vxkmhVDRvvpS_y-jj0wN8P6-APEgAc7lqoBTNK901f3vqCRj4vhHGfDKeyc4Vi_aWRFfVR16-SnS1XHfHXgnCl55LzRHVxTPCAp9mr46qw/s2500/DeeJonathan_SugarStreet.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2500" data-original-width="1600" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVnPcQ9XH8j36WXfBcdjrdO1WK7fJt1tzlQRyuV3g4h5tX6T9tfm-94y3eXjl6XjMcNz4vwhK4vxkmhVDRvvpS_y-jj0wN8P6-APEgAc7lqoBTNK901f3vqCRj4vhHGfDKeyc4Vi_aWRFfVR16-SnS1XHfHXgnCl55LzRHVxTPCAp9mr46qw/w256-h400/DeeJonathan_SugarStreet.jpg" width="256" /></a></div>The narrator of Jonathan Dee's <i><a href="https://groveatlantic.com/book/sugar-street/">Sugar Street</a></i> has as little social contact as possible, in the interest of self-preservation, but he is far from silent. There's a jarring meta moment about two-thirds of the way through, when the narrator admits to having always wanted to write a novel, and you think, there is no crime, he is not on the run, he is only disconnecting from the distractions of a banal existence so he can write, these are not his thoughts, they are his character's. <p></p><p>Maybe he should just shut up. </p><p>He's talking about radio when he says, "Something ugly is eventually released when you keep talking and talking with no idea who's listening to you." But I think the same principle applies to his output.</p><p>This novel came to my attention because it was <a href="https://themorningnews.org/article/the-year-in-fiction-2022">long-listed for the 2023 Tournament of Books</a>. For an overview of the setup, see <a href="https://www.ft.com/content/c5de1575-2933-46da-9794-4e29e71b014f">Lionel Shriver's excellent write-up</a>; the book starts much the way Hitchcock's Psycho does, which braces me for the potential stakes. The description, the mood, put me in mind of any number of Simenon stories, where a man walks out on his life. It felt almost fresh in its matter-of-factness, about crime, the state of the world, the inherent shittiness of people.</p><blockquote><p>What a cesspool this world is. Democracy, capitalism, liberalism: all in the lurid end-stages of their own failure, yet we won't even try to imagine anything different, any other principle around which life might be organized: we would sooner choke each other to death, which is basically what we're doing.</p></blockquote><p>I love my fiction with a dose of cynicism, but this book wore me down. Maybe because, still, I Need to Work, and rumours abound about mass layoffs. Maybe because it's cold and I'm tired. Maybe because he's right.</p><blockquote><p>I'm not one of those people who Needs to Work. The whole culture of employment: what does it serve, really? It serves the cause of maintaining the world as it is. You're like a particle of blood circulating through the way things are, and the way things are is pretty fucking toxic, terrible, destructive, nasty, vicious, brutal, and corrosive. In exchange for some money? No. Not anymore. Pass.</p></blockquote><p>So what is he doing here in the middle of nowhere, living a nothing life, without money, without people? What could have life been before for him to walk away from it?</p><p>He watches a public protest and wonders what these people were really doing.</p><blockquote><p>"Well, at least we did something," everyone would feel afterward, when in practical terms they had done nothing, except to show themselves something about themselves that they wanted to see [...] so that they might later tell themselves a story about how they'd done everything they could.</p></blockquote><p>Maybe that's what he's doing on Sugar Street, telling himself the same kind of story, that he did something, and that'll appease his his privileged white male conscience about the life he led until he left it.</p><blockquote><p>The world is a ruined place, and that is our doing. Some of us much more that others. Still, it's a fantasy that you are somehow going to make this world better by adding something to it, bringing something to it. The only way to improve this world is to substract from it. Only subtract.</p></blockquote>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-84904247365268475702023-01-13T00:10:00.001-05:002023-01-13T00:10:51.941-05:00My Self in the making<blockquote><p>I was engrossed by what I'd underlined. I read entire pages, struggling to recall the year I'd devoted to this book or that (1958, 1960, 1962, before marriage, after?). It wasn't the written conscience of the authors I was chasing after — they were often names I'd forgotten, aging pages, concepts by now no longer used in contemporary culture — but rather, my own conscience: What had seemed right to me in the past, my convictions, my thoughts, my Self in the making.</p></blockquote><blockquote><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKINjPdl1mUfNPX9QIf48zM-iyxiCKbCLLzHpWcoNCxw3gmeCPWxOUo8QsXHbsHm3LwPBSdw_wNOqCnHCfsff6bgcYaoTV7ZUDNF1oPLwuP9xCQtgctqSdaC8Hss2zLkMMx9gxROf2AB8sVuyzBHEqORwuoGriIRCq3ySqs59sv7b-8rCw5Q/s933/StarnoneDomenico_Ties.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="933" data-original-width="600" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKINjPdl1mUfNPX9QIf48zM-iyxiCKbCLLzHpWcoNCxw3gmeCPWxOUo8QsXHbsHm3LwPBSdw_wNOqCnHCfsff6bgcYaoTV7ZUDNF1oPLwuP9xCQtgctqSdaC8Hss2zLkMMx9gxROf2AB8sVuyzBHEqORwuoGriIRCq3ySqs59sv7b-8rCw5Q/w258-h400/StarnoneDomenico_Ties.jpg" width="258" /></a></div><p></p></blockquote><p>I wake up this morning and... (I woke up this morning!) think about opening my eyes, feeling the crusted remnants of sleep in the corners of my right eye and resisting the urge to bring my fingers to the socket. I feel the air glance across the slash of dried glue above my brow and wonder if I'll wince as the muscles start the work of pulling the lid upward. (It's almost a week since I slipped in the bathtub, the bruise shifting around my eye, starting to get comfortable.)</p><p>I lift my gaze slowly above the horizon of the foot of my bed, out through the sliding doors where the houses and alleyway drop away. A massive red orb hovers in the grey sky. (A bright drop of blood on a wide brushstroke of mottling.) This view won't last long. In the blink of an eye, the orb will dissolve in a flash of light. I love waking up to the sunrise here, slightly different every day.</p><p>I think to myself, I need to write today. For work. (Really, I need to produce something, to merit this paycheque.) But also for leisure. For pleasure. For me. At long last.</p><p>Oh, all the books I haven't written about.</p><p>I slide out of bed, make coffee. I can read the final four pages before I start work, the four pages I couldn't keep my eyes open for last night, to find out how much they've resented each other, how little regard they had for each other, to find out what became of the cat.</p><blockquote><p>You've finally made an unequivocal move. You didn't flinch before the judge's order, you did nothing to reclaim the fatherhood you kept invoking. You accepted that I alone would care for the children, disregarding the fact that they might need you. You've dumped their lives onto me, officially distancing them from your own. And because silence amounts to consent, these minors have been entrusted to me. <i>Effective immediately. </i>Bravo, you make me so proud of having loved you.</p></blockquote><p>("Jerk.") It is a sad story, and it pains me to be reminded of certain chapters of my own life.</p><p><i><a href="https://www.europaeditions.com/book/9781609453862/ties">Ties</a></i>, by Domenico Starnone, relates a trainwreck of a marriage, along the lines of Moravia's <i>Contempt</i> (oh, did I not write about that one?), but more direct, less internal, somehow breezier, they end up together after all, don't they? </p><p>The story is told in three parts, from the perspectives of the wife, the husband, and the grown children, and by any of their accounts, there is very little redeemable about Aldo. Aldo's an immature, selfish prick, and Vanda has a harsh reality to contend with as a result. The mystery that pulls us through the novel is how they got back together, and why they stayed together. </p><p></p><blockquote>— I don't remember anything about us anymore.<p>I summoned the courage. I asked:</p><p>— About us when?</p>— Always: from the moment we met until today, until I'll die.</blockquote>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-47539361493113401752022-11-16T00:20:00.000-05:002022-11-16T00:20:49.534-05:00That beautiful senseless morning<blockquote><p>Whenever dawn caught him in motion, Gonzalo tended to feel like there was some kind of link between the birth of the light and the very fact of moving forward, as if the walker were somehow responsible for the dawn, or the other way around: as if the dawn generated the movement of feet over sidewalk. He was about to say this to Carla, but he wasn't sure he could explain it, he was afraid of getting tangled up, and he felt like anything he said could spoil that beautiful senseless morning.</p></blockquote><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSpay0682z-GBeFmnZznBaJ1pMuGzZsvZVKlmuIrPxW92AIgJizZjESQLlW26oPYj2cQR8ekgh5GMiiuKkTddXns-8mSKOmIULCXH5lRVLjBqLyBtkmHS-Rsyj6oMK0OF0DVL6CbWyE166xGIl93fov495yQawapiyQwtV5NrfVfEOnC6DJA/s680/ZambraAlejandro_ChileanPoet.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="680" data-original-width="510" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSpay0682z-GBeFmnZznBaJ1pMuGzZsvZVKlmuIrPxW92AIgJizZjESQLlW26oPYj2cQR8ekgh5GMiiuKkTddXns-8mSKOmIULCXH5lRVLjBqLyBtkmHS-Rsyj6oMK0OF0DVL6CbWyE166xGIl93fov495yQawapiyQwtV5NrfVfEOnC6DJA/w300-h400/ZambraAlejandro_ChileanPoet.jpg" width="300" /></a></div>We start the book believing the eponymous Chilean poet is Gonzalo, but later realize it could instead be Carla's son, Vicente. Or perhaps it is neither of them specifically, but rather a breed of poet, like the domestic shorthair, and the novel a study of the creature's history and environment, influences and influence.<p></p><p>(Why is there a cat on the cover anyway? Pru wants to write about the stray dogs Chile is overrun by, like the poets are dogs, and she is led by them, or maybe in fact poets are the opposite of dogs — tolerated, cared for, nurtured, loved. The cover illustration is credited to Laura Wächter and titled "Darkness," so it is clearly a portrait of the family pet, who did play a pivotal but not central role in the novel, so unless <i>he's</i> a poet, it's a surprising choice to feature him on the cover.) </p><p>I was prepared to dislike <i>Chilean Poet</i>, by Alejandro Zambra, because it might not live up to <i>Multiple Choice</i>, or it would show it up for the gimmick it was and prove Zambra incapable of depth beyond gimmickry. Also, the opening pages felt very male, as if they could not have been written by anyone who hadn't been a teenage boy, and I thought, this may not be something I want to read right now.</p><p>But it's charming, that boy somehow charmed me, maybe the fact that he wanted to be a poet gave his character a layer of complexity, took the edge off the masculinity.</p><p></p><blockquote><p>Usually Carla wanted to be where she was and who she was.</p><p>People say that's what happiness is — when you don't feel like you should be somewhere else, or someone else. A different person. Someone younger, older. Someone better.</p><p>It's a perfect and impossible idea, but still, during all those years, Carla generally wanted to be exactly were she was.</p></blockquote><p></p><p><i>Chilean Poet</i> is a love story, or two, or more. As an intergenerational drama, everyone's driven by different values, but they all simply want to get the most out of life. This novel is also a crash course in the country's literary tradition and the politics that accompany it.</p><p></p><blockquote><p>"It's better to write than not to write. Poetry is subversive because it exposes you, tears you apart. You dare to distrust yourself. You dare to disobey. That's the idea, to disobey everyone. Disobey yourself, that's the most important thing. That's crucial. I don't know if I like my poems, but I know that if I hadn't written them I'd be dumber, more useless, more individualistic. I publish them because they're alive. I don't know if they're good, but they deserve to live."</p><p>"A lot of people say that poetry is useless."</p><p>"They're afraid of useless things. Everything has to have purpose. They hate pure creation, they're in love with corporations. They're afraid of solitude. They don't know how to be alone."</p></blockquote><p>LitHub: <a href="https://lithub.com/chilean-poet/">Excerpt</a><br />Atlantic: <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/books/archive/2022/02/chilean-poet-alejandro-zambra-review/622926/">A Fascinating Portrait of a Country at a Turning Point</a></p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-6396514022318711072022-11-08T08:09:00.001-05:002022-11-18T12:40:03.510-05:00Where her body ends and the space around her begins<blockquote><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3JFAAljP6S1Kt3KC-2PlWWzXEfjEO7UEvTwIyvBnIyMQOqKpOQNcm9IzyvY3IlakGY9QPRQHIlTO8Lh-yrjLB_RZTyWEp_xnl_bgzH124OuoqfP8OECw9PvZKbO24DFv8ZCz341nDpjdVdFwBITZkAMniWmGtpcz7uyo91d0qmiHYdELkWQ/s2128/BerlinerFelicia_Shmutz.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2128" data-original-width="1399" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3JFAAljP6S1Kt3KC-2PlWWzXEfjEO7UEvTwIyvBnIyMQOqKpOQNcm9IzyvY3IlakGY9QPRQHIlTO8Lh-yrjLB_RZTyWEp_xnl_bgzH124OuoqfP8OECw9PvZKbO24DFv8ZCz341nDpjdVdFwBITZkAMniWmGtpcz7uyo91d0qmiHYdELkWQ/w263-h400/BerlinerFelicia_Shmutz.jpg" width="263" /></a></div>It's so much easier to know what Hashem wants for a man: not to be a woman. Unlike the blessing women say, in small print, the men's blessing appears in the regular, large typeface of the prayerbook. <i>Blessed are You, Hashem</i>, men say every day, <i>Who did not make me a woman</i>.<p></p></blockquote><p>Raizl is having a hard time of things: she's18 years old and refusing dates set by the matchmaker, so her mother sends her to therapy, where we learn about her porn addiction. For a Hasidic Jewish family, she's already been granted a lot of liberties — allowed to work to pay for her dowry, allowed to pursue accounting at college after earning a scholarship, allowed to use a laptop for her studies, but she has a niggling, she yearns for something more, something porn has opened her eyes (legs, mouth, mind) to but cannot satisfy.</p><p>She is somewhat resentful of men, but eventually realizes that although men live more public lives, they are not more free. Men are also bound by ritual and obligation, by family and expectation, by god.</p><p><i>Shmutz</i>, by Felicia Berliner, is funny. And sad. And more than meets the eye. And there's a lot of Yiddish in it, glossary included (but as with <i>A Clockwork Orange</i>, I didn't realize it until it was over).</p><p>It is harder for Raizl to wear jeans than to <a href="https://lithub.com/shmutz/">eat bacon</a>. She finds her place among the outsiders at school, the goths who appreciate her Hasidic sense of style. She learns to sound less Yiddish. But she never wants to be someone else. It's never a question of her walking away from her constrained life. Raizl struggles to accept her world as it is and her place in it, to reconcile her ways of thinking and of being to what her god wants of her.</p><p>While there's a match on the horizon, she finally learns compassion, and maybe something like love, above all for herself.</p><blockquote><p>She enjoys herself in the mirror. In her new marriage-date clothes. There is no skin showing, no collarbone and no wrists, just her face and hands. What kind of porn would that be, a video of a fully dressed woman, a long-sleeved blouse with a cotton sweater over it, not even a tight sweater, and a skirt down to her boots, not even high-heeled? The modesty-porn video. She is walking, her skirt moves, her shoulders understand where her body ends and the space around her begins. All the porn is in her face.</p></blockquote><p><b>See also</b><br /><a href="https://www.heyalma.com/you-can-judge-shmutz-by-its-cover/">You can judge 'Shmutz' by its cover</a><br /><a href="https://lithub.com/the-under-celebrated-erotic-power-of-hamantaschen/">The under-celebrated erotic power of… hamantaschen</a> (Felicia Berliner)<br /><a href="https://www.heyalma.com/yes-theres-a-reason-hamantaschen-look-like-vaginas/">Yes, there’s a reason hamantaschen look like vaginas</a></p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-90496810737707203882022-10-14T08:53:00.002-04:002022-10-14T09:03:57.260-04:00Tiny orange mushrooms<p></p><blockquote><p>I could only see a small patch of sky, the part that was left open between the treetops of the forest around me. The branches seemed like a network that in some places almost obscured the sky. Once my eyes had adjusted to the faint light, I realized that the undergrowth was alive with all manner of things. Tiny orange mushrooms. Moss. Something that looked like coarse white veins on the underside of a leaf. What must be some kind of fungus. Dead beetles. Various kind of ants. Centipedes. Moths on the backs of leaves.</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVFZP7MOd58pnNMdkzHlip2-SX9oiiBEtOPwdSM5b7WUkfIQah1dIhksXmgHEokE4JgIJ86JmO5LIYomm9TclU180JGZRIVeMECEUOmeUU5kCy4S6CJl8meSQYdTzdumnIUnZ5EuMg6OQHS0Df8WVN3gX1rnfMgApt6P4Mmr4lwqWixGtx7w/s448/KawakamiHiromi_StrangeWeatherInTokyo.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="448" data-original-width="274" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVFZP7MOd58pnNMdkzHlip2-SX9oiiBEtOPwdSM5b7WUkfIQah1dIhksXmgHEokE4JgIJ86JmO5LIYomm9TclU180JGZRIVeMECEUOmeUU5kCy4S6CJl8meSQYdTzdumnIUnZ5EuMg6OQHS0Df8WVN3gX1rnfMgApt6P4Mmr4lwqWixGtx7w/s16000/KawakamiHiromi_StrangeWeatherInTokyo.jpg" /></a></div>It seemed strange to be surrounded by so many living things. When I was in Tokyo, I couldn't help but feel like I was always alone, or occasionally in the company of Sensei. It seemed like the only living things in Tokyo were big like us. But of course, if I really paid attention, there were plenty of other living things surrounding me in the city as well. It was never just the two of us, Sensei and me. Even when we were at the bar, I tended to only take notice of Sensei. But Satoru was always there, along with the usual crowd of familiar faces. And I never really acknowledged that any of them were alive in any way. I never gave any thought to the fact that they were leading the same kind of complicated life as I was.<p></p></blockquote><p></p><p>Another version of myself might've been bored by this novel. </p><p>Sitting on the sand of an Ionian island, my friend rolls her eyes at her soap-operatic beach read, all amnesia and extramarital affairs. She's relating it to me in agonizing detail, sparing me the hardship of reading it for myself.</p><p><i>What's your book like?</i>, my friend asks me. <i>It's really nice</i>, I say, <i>nothing happens. </i></p><p>But oh, the bartender has just invited them to go foraging for mushrooms.</p><p><i>Strange Weather in Tokyo</i>, by Hiromi Kawakami, is a love story. Tsukiko frequents a bar near the train station, as does her old high school Japanese teacher. One evening they sit at the counter together, they have a moment of recognition, and the conversation begins. They share similar taste in food, but also a similar rhythm and temperament. They meet when they happen to meet; their friendship is outside of time.</p><blockquote><p>I, on the other hand, still might not be considered a proper grown-up. I had been very much the adult when I was in elementary school. But as I continued on through junior high and high school, on the contrary, I became less grown-up. And then as the years passed, I turned into quite a childlike person. I suppose I just wasn't able to ally myself with time.</p></blockquote><p>Sensei is some thirty years older than her, and in their interactions always assumes the role of the master. Many months pass before it dawns on Tsukiko that their shared intimacy is something like love, although I believe Sensei knew it all along.</p><p>Despite their familiarity, their minds are still not fully knowable to each other. As Tsukiko notes of other relationships, "it was precisely because we were close that we couldn't reach each other."</p><blockquote><p>What I see in the mirror is not my own lithe, naked body, more than necessarily subject to gravity — I'm not speaking to the me who is visible there, but rather to an invisible version of myself that I sense hovering somewhere in the room.</p></blockquote><p>I think of all the versions of myself, the ones I talk to when I'm alone, the ones I dare show other people, the versions that have yet to materialize, the versions that past versions have grown into. They are all alive and present and always with me, not just on this rock swelling out of an azure sea.</p><p>I think of the man who might've been my Sensei. This book, and recent mythic landscapes, stir ghosts of him, I see him encountering other versions of myself in places we'd never been.</p><blockquote><p>"It grows because you plant it. That's how love is. If the love is true, then treat it the same way you would a plant — fertilize it, protect it from the elements — you must do absolutely everything you can. But if it isn't true, then it's best to just let it wither on the vine."</p></blockquote><p>(What do you do when you've left it to wither, and despite harsh abandonment, still all the world is green?)</p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-75570242363609642992022-09-18T23:38:00.001-04:002022-09-18T23:38:41.436-04:00Is this what I want to be carrying in my body?<blockquote><p>"In Japan, they say that when you can't sleep, you must be awake in someone else's dream."</p></blockquote><p>Who is dreaming about me every night? Perhaps it is several people in rotation. Do they queue up to dream about me? Is it a cabal of dreamers conspiring to keep me from being rested, a kind of torture, to keep me restless? Is it true that they say this in Japan? Is it actually true, if you're dreaming, or not sleeping, in Japan? (This goes some way in explaining Haruki Murakami's novels.)</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEij3DTpgZ3zNSuUi4JFGqqIbTmx0EVzEn3Aw5quNDtS0mR8JvZvobX1KeapY-eUjZnQ2OTUnHp7KZG1NYoEDz81OjJNsdmfWO9U4cl68N-9a_rBQLKcTDSVs_dNoXzcZZut_v55A5iaPdaTJeLGEC6K7wCYlpiMtyu3-zPIlrtVx3M51pzEvg/s450/MichaelsSean_TheWagers.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="450" data-original-width="300" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEij3DTpgZ3zNSuUi4JFGqqIbTmx0EVzEn3Aw5quNDtS0mR8JvZvobX1KeapY-eUjZnQ2OTUnHp7KZG1NYoEDz81OjJNsdmfWO9U4cl68N-9a_rBQLKcTDSVs_dNoXzcZZut_v55A5iaPdaTJeLGEC6K7wCYlpiMtyu3-zPIlrtVx3M51pzEvg/w266-h400/MichaelsSean_TheWagers.jpg" width="266" /></a></div>It might have something to do with the conservation of energy. Keeping the cosmos in balance.<p></p><p><i>The Wagers</i>, by <a href="http://byseanmichaels.com/">Sean Michaels</a>, is about luck. Kind of. Luck is posited to be an actual physical substance, much like sand. Or pixie dust. Some people don't even know they have it. Others mine it and hoard it. </p><p>After a run of luck, or coincidence, or statistics, Theo stumbles into a life outside the family grocery business. He lands a job as a processor. Luck, he learns, is all about beating the odds — in positive and negative ways. The renegade band of weirdos across the street is determined to redistribute it.</p><blockquote><p>"Processing is passive, procedural. It does not require independent thinking. At least it shouldn't! If you're thinking independently, you're doing it wrong."</p></blockquote><p>[I think of all the processing I do. Events. Emotions. I think of it as active, intentional, conscious. Perhaps it's because I'm not sleeping. I should be processing my waking hours in my sleep.]</p><p>Theo definitely has some processing to do. His mother has just died. His niece won big at the track, allowing the family business to grow in different directions. He continues to flounder as a stand-up comic. And the woman he fell in love with went on retreat in the Sahara, and keeps delaying her return.</p><p></p><blockquote><p>Lately I've been trying to retrain my fingers. I can still feel the habits when I lay them flat on the table: scroll, swipe. CTRL-C, CTRL-V. Open new tab. All this high-tech muscle memory, and none of it relevant to my yurt. It's useful knowledge, you'd say. Utility isn't everything, Theo. These days I ask myself questions like: Is this what I want to be carrying in my body? The itch to manipulate a web browser? To scroll and tap on a screen? I'd rather my body carried worthier impulses. What else could I carry in the places I carry smartphone swipes and copy-paste? How much more patience, self-knowledge, compassion?</p><p>So I'm retraining. You could do it too. Try. Lay your hands flat on the table, feel your fingers stretch. Palm. Knuckles. Skin. I tell my hands to forget what they aren't, and feel what they <i>are</i>. To feel what <i>I</i> am. Aches and scars, blood pulse, tremor. Fascia tautening with age. Our hands hold traces of everything we've ever touched, a thousand handshakes and caresses. Sometimes I think about my grandmother's hands. The way they felt when she clasped my hands in hers, the strength. Our bodies aren't just shapes we're wearing, clothes we put on. They're chronicles. They're wiser than we are.</p></blockquote><p></p><p>[This is a good lesson and I know it to be true. I learned it while learning to sculpt clay; <a href="http://magnificentoctopus.blogspot.com/2021/05/the-first-lump-of-clay-peter.html">my fingers know things</a>. It is good to be reminded, and to notice what they know. (I keep thinking I should go on retreat.)]</p><p>One of the charms of The Wagers is the city it roots itself in — Montreal. I swear I've shopped at Theo's store. I know those hills, and that water tower, and the cartoon logo of an elephant-turned-vacuum-cleaner. And it is magical.</p><p></p><blockquote><i>We don't get to choose what we want</i>, he thought. <i>Only what we pursue.</i></blockquote><p></p><p><b>Excerpts</b><br /><a href="https://tinhouse.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/The-Wagers-Preview.pdf">Chapter 1</a><br /><a href="https://www.penguinrandomhouse.ca/books/607035/the-wagers-by-sean-michaels/9780735278134/excerpt">From Chapter 3</a></p><p>BOMB <a href="https://bombmagazine.org/articles/sean-michaels/">A Surfeit of Wondrous Things: Sean Michaels Interviewed by Tobias Carroll</a></p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-66834094662087213812022-07-23T10:14:00.336-04:002022-09-18T23:59:39.029-04:00You want to be a positive nothing<blockquote><p>But how does a person learn to see herself as nothing when she has already had so much trouble learning to see herself as something in the first place? [...] You have been a negative nothing, now you want to be a positive nothing. </p></blockquote><blockquote><p>— from "New Year's Resolution," in <i>The Collected Stories of Lydia Davis</i>, by Lydia Davis.</p></blockquote><p>He asks me about my summer, have I taken vacation. I mumble noncommittally. </p><p>I feel the nitrile graze my lip as he positions his fingers inside my mouth. My lip reacts and I suppress my lip from reacting, it is like being touched without being touched, there is no tenderness but it is a gentle sensation.</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQJLN0SZxZ8xgr5TOGaM-gL56T_sIOoDN0mqh1wZZSinlrB1EMCxyn9Me8j3PaUJ64Ptz-_1ZXVw-t5hCcJZmmoKZrzpsgTEBB9eIuHFfsaPQDRs--RFeXFq18uUREZC4jgCKfIlbx0BVgsY4Jc-fIVPkc3hZsuYtd_rtDBrLhMzVTX6DASw/s747/NYRB_TheFictionIssue2022.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="747" data-original-width="549" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQJLN0SZxZ8xgr5TOGaM-gL56T_sIOoDN0mqh1wZZSinlrB1EMCxyn9Me8j3PaUJ64Ptz-_1ZXVw-t5hCcJZmmoKZrzpsgTEBB9eIuHFfsaPQDRs--RFeXFq18uUREZC4jgCKfIlbx0BVgsY4Jc-fIVPkc3hZsuYtd_rtDBrLhMzVTX6DASw/w294-h400/NYRB_TheFictionIssue2022.jpg" width="294" /></a></div>I tell myself to relax the muscles of my face, around the corners of my mouth, and at my left temple. I wonder how good he is at reading faces. Can he read trepidation? Does he see pain? Has he learned to ignore it? Does he respond to it, does it influence his examination? Maybe he leans into it, tries to extrude it like a fleck of debris with his scaler.<p></p><p>I feel a twinge deep in the gum above an upper canine, I think I am reflexively wincing, I tell myself not to wince, I don't actually feel pain, I don't want him to see pain, there is no pain. It tickles a little.</p><p>The motor doesn't sound so loud, like I'm hearing everything through a woolen sock, only the sock is lining the inside of my head. </p><p>I think about how like it is to the rotary tool I have to sand and finish my sculptures. He is polishing the enamel, and I am like stone, stone flesh with detached nerves, a soft core deep inside wondering how much can the body bear, when will the outer shell crack. But the vibrations are almost delicate — am I so inured, or so removed?</p><p>*****</p><p>I receive in my <a href="https://us7.campaign-archive.com/?u=f0b85bd809651a94e3b899af6&id=0872ca7019">inbox</a> an excerpt from "Night Bakery" by <a href="https://otherpress.com/author/fabio-morabito-2248272/">Fabio Morábito</a>. It begins thusly:</p><blockquote><p>During my time in Berlin I just walked around and didn’t read a single book. In a way I replaced reading with walking.</p></blockquote><p>I think about this for days, while walking cross my new neighbourhood. It's not mine yet, I haven't fully inhabited it. This is a temporary state. I am hovering above the world, above life, before alighting.</p><p>I think about all the nonreading and nonwriting, and this unsatisfying nonwalking, the wondering without concluding. I decide to order this book of stories — it takes what feels like hours to find this line again, to find the newsletter, to trace it to its source, to pinpoint the thing that is affecting me — but am dismayed to learn it will not be published till next spring. Time enough for me to write my own stories. I think all fiction is speculation.</p><p>I stumble across a <a href="https://electricliterature.com/10-books-about-women-who-want-to-have-sex/">list</a> that looks like the bibliography of my writing project of the last two years. "The books in this list explore, inhabit, and investigate physical hunger." Is it physical?</p><p>*****</p><p>One day I need to run an errand in the old neighbourhood. I have coffee before setting out, and browse headlines on my phone. I realize the NYRB fiction issue is out, and I think I should pick up a copy. (I want to be the kind of person who picks up the fiction issue. Do I want to be seen or known as the kind of person who picks up the fiction issue? I believe the being seen and being known are not important to me, it's the being that's important, but I can't be sure.) </p><p>My errand becomes two errands. The original errand is crucial and time-sensitive, other people rely on its completion for their comfort and well-being, but the new errand born of impulse and frivolity becomes the day's focus.</p><p>I finally find a copy and am relieved that it feels right and familiar. This is the kind of person I am. (I know these books reviewed by authors of other books I know.)</p><p>I have not read it cover to cover. I skim the review of Batuman's <i>Either/Or</i> and check my hold at the library; it will easily be September before I read it, my daughter will have started university. (While on the library site, I realize I am #1 on 0 copies of a book that is not available and wonder how I was allowed to reserve it.)</p><p>I glance at the piece on Gainza'a <i><a href="http://magnificentoctopus.blogspot.com/2022/06/a-pleasure-thats-hard-to-describe.html">Portrait of an Unknown Lady</a></i> and hope that when I read it later it will enlighten me. What is it about Gainza's books, which I don't particularly enjoy, that inspire me to stubbornly poke and prod at things I don't understand, which — the poking and prodding — I also don't particularly enjoy?</p><p>And here, there is a <a href="https://www.nybooks.com/articles/2022/07/21/i-who-have-never-known-men-harpman/">review</a> of Jacqueline Harpman's <i>I Who Have Never Known Men</i>, which title stops me in my tracks.</p><p></p><blockquote><p>This mesmerizing oddity opens with a prefatory couple of pages about something—some sort of memoir or testimony—that the narrator has just finished writing:</p><p></p></blockquote><blockquote><blockquote><p>I was gradually forgetting my story. At first, I shrugged, telling myself that it would be no great loss, since nothing had happened to me, but soon I was shocked by that thought. After all, if I was a human being, my story was as important as that of King Lear or of Prince Hamlet that William Shakespeare had taken the trouble to relate in detail.</p></blockquote><p></p><p></p></blockquote><p>I spend days thinking about the title, and thinking about what my story is, it's not one story, it's a multitude. I spend those same days reminding people around me, and myself, that while we may be the hero of our own life, we are not the centre of other people's universes. </p><p>It's many more days before I read the <a href="https://www.nybooks.com/articles/2022/07/21/i-who-have-never-known-men-harpman/">review</a> of Harpman's <i>I Who Have Never Known Men</i> and determine that I should read this novel, even while the review is less about the book than it is about the violent and mysterious age we find ourselves in, as Deborah Eisenberg puts it, "our current, very alarming moment." I find myself nodding. </p><p>I am the kind of person who picks up a copy, thumbs through it, sets it aside, packs it in her bag to have something to read while waiting, opens it and refolds it, flips back to find that one sentence that caught her eye, thinks about making time to read it later. </p><p>*****</p><p>There is blood, as usual. I wonder how normal the bleeding is. I don't talk to people about it because I am ashamed. It is a moral shortcoming that I don't floss as often as I should.</p><p>Can he sense the tension in my jaw, or see the effects of my teeth clenching? He tells me I should take a vacation, I deserve it. </p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-27916448420817879432022-06-30T10:10:00.003-04:002022-07-01T23:29:57.494-04:00The pain is part of the whole thing<p>The other evening I sit with a friend on his balcony having a glass of wine and sharing insights into our hearts and brains and those of our lovers and those whom we'd like to have as our lovers and those who will never be our lovers, and about what happens between flirtation and expectation and reality, and he said something to me about how quick we are (I mean, not us, but people in general) to back away, as soon as any perceived flaw becomes apparent, as soon as our exacting standards are snubbed by the actuality of the flawed human being before us, because they just aren't worth the effort. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhDqR_UWdpK2Zabo1wt2Bvbn8L4cSXz5RvAvE26QF-00tJdT_sD7ZKPYWPoYoc9Pjj3EhHdA2zPopbbrTKewQ7rNLgDnfBLkeiyvHbuNQUgHy_OBkZXo0i9mpp8803F_NtKuA3iDkHOX4vmqE3QZFC4mHgwN-w1EAtRjJpktAQpc9_J9zcjA/s1399/DavisLydia_TheCollectedStories.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1399" data-original-width="900" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhDqR_UWdpK2Zabo1wt2Bvbn8L4cSXz5RvAvE26QF-00tJdT_sD7ZKPYWPoYoc9Pjj3EhHdA2zPopbbrTKewQ7rNLgDnfBLkeiyvHbuNQUgHy_OBkZXo0i9mpp8803F_NtKuA3iDkHOX4vmqE3QZFC4mHgwN-w1EAtRjJpktAQpc9_J9zcjA/w258-h400/DavisLydia_TheCollectedStories.jpg" width="258" /></a></div>How easy it is to say no (or sometimes nothing at all), how much easier than compassion, than to accept someone's authentic self and engage in the exercise of knowing them, really knowing them, even especially biblically.<p></p><p>I think about how I could've said no to the man, a recent lover, whose behaviour I am now dissecting with my friend on his balcony. It's easy to say no, we have so many reasons to say no, I could've said no because of, well it doesn't matter the many reasons why, but the brave thing is to say yes, to be open to yes. I could've said no, but I said yes, but after some time he said no, I don't know why.</p><p>I don't tell my friend this, but I try to say yes as often as possible (unless it's to do with work), and for this I am proud of myself. Carpe diem and all that. The yes is almost always worth it. The yes is the good stuff, the stuff of deathbed reminiscences. Nothing is permanent, everything is temporary. Yes.</p><p>I come home late, a little drunk, but lighter, and smiling, and I fall into bed, too alive to be sleeping, I open <a href="https://us.macmillan.com/books/9780312655396/thecollectedstoriesoflydiadavis">The Collected Stories of Lydia Davis</a>. I read something about something liminal as the character was trying and failing to fall asleep, while I am falling asleep, drifting between Davis's words, feeling the mostly natural chemicals coursing through my blood, feeling these words were written for me in this moment. </p><p>And the next thing I know it's the end of the story, and there's another one, right there on the next page, "He's trying to break it down," and I urgently feel the need to break down what he's breaking down, and it reminds me of how I rationalize buying the expensive shoes, that really, if I wear them on most workdays during the shoulder seasons and then as my indoor shoes through winter, and they're quality shoes, I expect them to last, they're classic, I won't tire of them, every time I wear them will cost me barely a dollar to feel like a million bucks. And it reminds me also of Calvino, that story of the trajectory of the arrow. Only "<a href="https://www.theparisreview.org/fiction/3063/break-it-down-lydia-davis">Break It Down</a>" is about the cost of a weekend getaway, no, it's longer than that, wait, is she a paid escort?, no, it's love, he's breaking down the relationship, he's breaking down the cost of love, he's breaking down, and oh my fucking god. </p><blockquote><p>I guess you get to a point where you look at that pain as if it were there in front of you three feet away lying in a box, an open box, in a window somewhere. It's hard and cold, like a bar of metal. You just look at it there and say, All right, I'll take it, I'll buy it. That's what it is. Because you know all about it before you even go into this thing. You know the pain is part of the whole thing. And it isn't that you can say afterwards the pleasure was greater than the pain and that's why would do it again. That has nothing to do with it. You can't measure it, because the pain comes after and it lasts longer. So the question really is, Why doesn't that pain make you say, I won't do it again? When the pain is so bad that you have to say that, but you don't.</p></blockquote><p>Only, a lot of people don't remember that pain, they promptly convert it into armour, and they don't do it again, they've developed an aversion, it's not learned, it's conditioned. </p><p>We forget how painful childbirth, for example, is, because nature wants to ensure we do it again, fulfill an evolutionary imperative. Love is an unknown compared to childbirth, it is not a process with defined stages, certainly it's not as obviously physical, love is nebulous. The experience of it rewires our brains and hardens our hearts in less predictable ways. In this way, many people learn to avoid love. I am learning to embrace it, over and over again, to go into the pain, therein lies the greatest pleasure.</p><p>I'd love to tell my friend about this story, it's brilliant.</p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-75293944038435665882022-06-25T11:18:00.002-04:002022-06-25T11:18:48.007-04:00The resourcefulness of rot, the wholeness of fungi<blockquote><p>A forest floor, the Woodland villagers knew, is a living thing. Vast civilizations lay within the mosaic of dirt: hymenopteran labyrinths, rodential panic rooms, life-giving airways sculpted by the traffic of worms, hopeful spiders' hunting cabins, crash pads for nomadic beetles, trees shyly locking toes with one another. It was here that you'd find the resourcefulness of rot, the wholeness of fungi.</p></blockquote><p><i><a href="https://www.npr.org/2021/07/18/1017119290/a-monk-and-a-robot-meet-in-a-forest-and-talk-philosophy-in-this-new-novel"></a></i></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><i><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7MeSvWdezBY1tjtyBa_suNWIirEpXENGil-Lvv7_iPz9dc5CUjLVmVy9Aktr5KcWitqw9Fo_mpmc0j0DRMzq_bEwRRjjRJcbiO8jqAzSqsc_SC4IMZ9nFnZ-TcEAKpf-gimffkLtK0-Z3hCWEgWmt5ntuALAGIN5NxUKUX_A32bWym9K5Xw/s475/ChambersBecky_APsalmForTheWildBuilt.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="475" data-original-width="297" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7MeSvWdezBY1tjtyBa_suNWIirEpXENGil-Lvv7_iPz9dc5CUjLVmVy9Aktr5KcWitqw9Fo_mpmc0j0DRMzq_bEwRRjjRJcbiO8jqAzSqsc_SC4IMZ9nFnZ-TcEAKpf-gimffkLtK0-Z3hCWEgWmt5ntuALAGIN5NxUKUX_A32bWym9K5Xw/w250-h400/ChambersBecky_APsalmForTheWildBuilt.jpg" width="250" /></a></i></div><i>A Psalm for the Wild-Built</i>, by Becky Chambers, is about the unlikely encounter of a tea monk and a robot, centuries after the Awakening, when robots left the factories to venture into the wilderness.<p></p><p>Needless to say, Dex learns more about their own humanity from the wild-built Mosscap (assembled from old parts), who has undertaken an anthropological investigation into the needs of humans. In Mosscap's wisdom, they distinguish what they are <i>doing</i> from their reason for <i>being</i>.</p><blockquote><p>Nothing has a purpose. The world simply is. [...] It is enough to exist in the world and marvel at it. You don't need to justify that, or earn it. You are allowed to just <i>live</i>.</p></blockquote><p>Dex has a restless soul. They were tired of city-living when they sought a change of vocation. I'm just tired. Tired of feeling I have to justify myself. There are lessons here for me too.</p><p>[Even when I enjoy lazy days, I have to convince myself that I have earned them. Even when I have earned them, I often reframe my laziness in terms of accomplishment. Simple rest becomes an exercise in wellness, meditation, communion with nature — as if one must be active in one's passivity. Productivity is overrated. We should stop valuing it.]</p><p>As an example of <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solarpunk">solarpunk</a>, this novella has a relatively positive outlook on our future, with humans coming to terms with their place in the world.</p><blockquote><p>It is difficult for anyone born and raised in human infrastructure to truly internalize the fact that your view of the world is backward. Even if you fully know that you live in a natural world that existed before you and will continue long after, even if you know that the wilderness is the default state of things, and that nature is not something that only happens in carefully curated enclaves between towns, something that pops up in empty spaces if you ignore them for a while, even if you spend your whole life believing yourself to be deeply in touch with the ebb and flow, the cycle, the ecosystem as it actually is, you will still have trouble picturing an untouched world. You will still struggle to understand that human constructs are carved out and overlaid, that <i>these</i> are the places that are the in-between, not the other way around.</p></blockquote><p><a href="https://www.tor.com/2021/06/22/excerpts-becky-chambers-a-psalm-for-the-wild-built/ ">Excerpt</a>. </p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-10655771163519421752022-06-21T11:10:00.007-04:002022-06-21T11:17:00.223-04:00Where they show each other scars<p></p><blockquote><p>In this humid, rusty place where women congregate, naked and wet, where they show each other scars beside their breasts and on the bellies, the bruises on their thighs, the imperfections on their backs, they all talk about misfortune. They complain about husbands, children, aging parents. They confess things without feeling guilty.</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKGip0MFP9LISyrDZUYIqCouBB31QucO--1QbzYbzK5evAiz_ugxDMelSvwJbMbvFy3PfE_CIWiNcZ5nlX72F6RbuU6kvP4MGB0k2r7tV6MbR7p7MnAQsyO_5x6aXR6zvF3KzrZu8n2i_cko8WW2Hel7elDmBlftrnvWYL1fY4h0_s6ETkWA/s450/LahiriJhumpa_Whereabouts.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="450" data-original-width="292" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKGip0MFP9LISyrDZUYIqCouBB31QucO--1QbzYbzK5evAiz_ugxDMelSvwJbMbvFy3PfE_CIWiNcZ5nlX72F6RbuU6kvP4MGB0k2r7tV6MbR7p7MnAQsyO_5x6aXR6zvF3KzrZu8n2i_cko8WW2Hel7elDmBlftrnvWYL1fY4h0_s6ETkWA/w260-h400/LahiriJhumpa_Whereabouts.jpg" width="260" /></a></div>As I take in these losses, these tragedies, it occurs to me that the water in the pool isn't so clear after all. It reeks of grief, of heartache. It's contaminated. And after I get out I'm saturated by a vague sense of dread. All that suffering doesn't leak out like the water that travels into my ear now and then. It burrows into my soul, it wedges itself into every nook of my body.<p></p><p>— from <i>Whereabouts</i>, by Jhumpa Lahiri.</p></blockquote><p></p><p>I was traveling to see an old friend, and it was important for me to have some token of a gift for her, and it seemed appropriate to bring her (not for the first time) a book.</p><p>And suddenly I felt the weight of this responsibility. It should be meaningful and beautiful. One title sprang to mind immediately, but it required a special order, for which I didn't have enough time. I recalled something else, something lovely I'd read last year, and went out to buy a copy. I had it in my hands and opened it up at the beginning and realized how very wrong it was. In essence it might be perfect, but I also saw how the style could be off-putting and my friend would never read past the first page.</p><p>I always associate this friend with la dolce vita and Italian things. We met when she was late for school. Her dorm room was empty for a week, maybe two, as she had yet to return from Italy, having spent the summer term there. Rumours about her grew. She was a legend before we ever laid eyes on her. And when she arrived, she made an entrance. She looked Italian, spoke Italian, exuded an Italian fashion sensibility and an Italian passion. I think she wanted to be Italian. I think I wanted to be her.</p><p>Standing there in the bookshop I ran through a mental inventory of appropriate Italian literature, beyond what we'd already shared between us. My recent discoveries left me only with Moravia and Starnone, which while relevant to me, might not make sense to her, and could even be emotional landmines.</p><p>And so I landed on Jhumpa Lahiri, Starnone's translator, who shifted to writing in her non-primary language. But how do you gift a book you haven't read? (I'd read <i>The Namesake</i> and was lukewarm about it.) I had the length of the train ride to assess it. I could always change my mind.</p><p>It reads swiftly. It's meditative, a bit restless, a bit lonely. But it resonates, describing a period in the narrator's life that seemed to reflect my changing relationships with friends, family, work, lovers, myself. I believe my friend would see herself in it too.</p><p><a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/entertainment/books/jhumpa-lahiris-novel-whereabouts-is-a-delicate-exploration-of-despair/2021/04/20/8c1fce0c-a1cc-11eb-a7ee-949c574a09ac_story.html">One review eviscerates it</a>, perceiving it to be a book of depression and despair. Clearly the reviewer has no understanding of what it is to be a woman of a certain age, where it is still the case that we spend a good deal of our life living for others, not ourselves. </p><p>In a <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/21/books/jhumpa-lahiri-whereabouts.html">New York Times article</a>, a critic asks, what did a Bengali-American find so liberating, so regenerating, in Rome and the Italian language? "<b>Joy.</b>"</p><p>LARB: <a href="https://lareviewofbooks.org/article/familiar-strangers-on-jhumpa-lahiris-whereabouts/">Familiar Strangers</a><br />The Rumpus: <a href="https://therumpus.net/2021/09/29/whereabouts-by-jhumpa-lahiri/">To Start Again in a Different Place</a><br /><a href="https://www.penguinrandomhouse.ca/books/659606/whereabouts-by-jhumpa-lahiri/9780735281486/excerpt">Excerpt</a>.</p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-56160003108980304672022-06-19T15:54:00.017-04:002022-06-19T23:24:42.745-04:00A pleasure that's hard to describe<blockquote><p>They say travel leads to the realization that one does not in fact exist.</p></blockquote><p>So starts an auction lot description of resurfaced possessions and miscellaneous articles. Another lot of Amelia Earhart's belongings in Mariette Lydis's possession describes their encounter. When asked why she flies, Earhart replies, "To get away from myself."</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfeimkVvjDdFSLyE14HXg1zm5p_-LwAtyCwUCdUv0ceanC7vtZcp6WFbRmhZvtvsxKJOSXrzFr_d_4u7jQ7NVbNZzHEx9un3lG8_R_mRqn901WpvxBGjfls4g6N0dSl-O9Gqwy6FYD4ihWjJUD5nH5kjpTQFXF41pqp9-Qf337UG0c3yJUQg/s475/GainzaMaria_PortraitOfAnUnknownLady.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="475" data-original-width="314" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfeimkVvjDdFSLyE14HXg1zm5p_-LwAtyCwUCdUv0ceanC7vtZcp6WFbRmhZvtvsxKJOSXrzFr_d_4u7jQ7NVbNZzHEx9un3lG8_R_mRqn901WpvxBGjfls4g6N0dSl-O9Gqwy6FYD4ihWjJUD5nH5kjpTQFXF41pqp9-Qf337UG0c3yJUQg/w265-h400/GainzaMaria_PortraitOfAnUnknownLady.jpg" width="265" /></a></div>I got away from myself the other weekend, to meet some friends for dinner in Ottawa. My last morning there I sat at a picnic table on the lawn of the admissions building where I went to university. I sat reading <i><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/books/2022/mar/01/portrait-of-an-unknown-lady-by-maria-gainza-review-bolano-esque-art-mystery">Portrait of an Unknown Lady</a></i>, by Maria Gainza, when a young man asked if he could join me. Easier to roll a joint on the table surface than on a bench, he explained. He asked me about my book, and I told him about it in broad strokes. <div><blockquote>Characters with precisely wrought histories, linear psychologies, and coherent ways of behaving are one of literature's great fallacies. We have little and nothing: only what we are today, at a stretch what we did yesterday, and with luck what we're going to do tomorrow.</blockquote><p>The truth is, I haven't particularly enjoyed reading Gainza's novels. I am, however, grateful for what they've opened my eyes to and made me think about.</p><p>And it was refreshing to hear this 21-year-old business student say with conviction that art is all about what it makes you feel, it doesn't matter if it's hanging on a gallery wall or valued at hundreds of thousands of dollars — it's personal. </p><blockquote><p>"It has a certain <i>je ne sais quoi</i>," Enriqueta would say, rubbing her hands together like a squirrel on the way to make mischief. "A pleasure that's hard to describe, no? Wars have been started, and homes broken, and careers ended just for this very feeling."</p></blockquote><p>The book's Spanish title translates as <i>The Black Light</i>, and I think it is more fitting than the title under which it is published in English. The portrait promised to me is incomplete, and it's not clear who the subject is (it could credibly be the narrator herself, her mentor Enriqueta, the presumed forger Renée, or the original artist Mariette Lydis). The black light, though, speaks to the process of investigation and discovery. the process of authentication.</p><blockquote><p>"Can a forgery not give as much pleasure as an original? Isn't there a point when fakes become more authentic than originals? And anyway," she added, "isn't the real scandal the market itself?"</p></blockquote><p>Gainza's narrator issues certificates of authenticity for works of art. Her mentor, who introduced her to the business of art forgery, did not set her on the path to corruption, so much as reveal how far along it she had already gone. </p><p>Regarding the artist: "Her portraits were not always of the prettiest daughter. In fact, she was said to prefer <i>les jolies laides</i> for the kind of poetic license they allowed, never the case with your stereotypical beauties." (A <a href="http://magnificentoctopus.blogspot.com/2022/03/a-gallery-of-monsters.html">touch of wabi-sabi</a> I can fully get behind.)</p><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNFoOYjtkFnBAal0753KsFjA4LAWSkNaN47z1fhFvupHwUIPOY-2mIKOQbd2-pTc1pmj1Zo4ck9sTsJZi-0h-HcelyhVZB-kHjM_iBRlvOajtFjY0dyrvu3HoidYD6do7BeO_7P0r-ijxQKBM6vauBn8KTJBwRgPwhtIABpgzyxmISvGVN0Q/s470/mariette-lydis-figuras.jpg" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><img border="0" data-original-height="470" data-original-width="400" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNFoOYjtkFnBAal0753KsFjA4LAWSkNaN47z1fhFvupHwUIPOY-2mIKOQbd2-pTc1pmj1Zo4ck9sTsJZi-0h-HcelyhVZB-kHjM_iBRlvOajtFjY0dyrvu3HoidYD6do7BeO_7P0r-ijxQKBM6vauBn8KTJBwRgPwhtIABpgzyxmISvGVN0Q/s320/mariette-lydis-figuras.jpg" width="272" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Figuras, Mariette Lydis, 1963.</td></tr></tbody></table><p>The forger (certainly an artist in her own right): "Yes, she was intelligent, but not that coatrack kind of intelligence for just hanging ideas on; a crazier, more acute kind of intelligence."</p><p>We all make our deals with the devil.</p><p>This past week I ventured out to watch <a href="https://youtu.be/M--fQj9QrWg">a kid play</a> all 24 Paganini caprices, and as I marveled at his ease (although the energy required to maintain this composure was betrayed by his popping a string) and wondered at how different the coloration was from that of recordings by other artists I'd listened to at home, I came to the realization that the culture of music (and especially live music) is built on copies (even forgeries). We talk about an original Picasso in a way we would, could, never talk about an original Vivaldi. We may fetishize a particular performance, the market may value a certain pressing of a specific recording, but it's not because it's the original piece of music and all others are copies (though they may pale by comparison).</p><p>There's a great scene (among many) in <i><a href="https://www.netflix.com/tudum/articles/all-the-russian-doll-season-2-easter-eggs-and-references">Russian Doll</a></i>, where 1982 Nadia as Nora walks into Crazy Eddie's and the televisions show a tv within a tv within a tv within... and then an infinite layering of Nadias and Noras.</p><blockquote><p>It's called a video feedback loop. It's like standing in between two mirrors. See, the image is being reflected over and over, and you can't just point at one of the reflections and say "That one's the original." It's like the beginning of mankind.</p></blockquote><p>All of these trains of thought bring me back to my relationship to sculpture.</p><p>It took me some years as a professional writer and editor to fully grasp that you have to know the rules before you can break them. I have been slow to appreciate how this extends across artforms. My understanding of music and painting, for example, was naive and underdeveloped such that I thought their magic relied on, well, magic. I thought musical or painterly talent and expression came from one's soul.</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiubDkynJiWG_EBu1uhK-xipoC9LwrPE6xULgbwEwT8XS-KK--6hYj2XzzorYSyB1kRKDIMwyrNuo3C6KhUWs_OQHdy_zYWVYpRclxbc71mjQGAp8puKG2mLx8GYxqA4iuyHYGjTbCOZ9lPybgIE2NqSfU6HF6HCggkx9GZqxSiFLMsmvHEQg/s3724/stone-casting.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3724" data-original-width="2096" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiubDkynJiWG_EBu1uhK-xipoC9LwrPE6xULgbwEwT8XS-KK--6hYj2XzzorYSyB1kRKDIMwyrNuo3C6KhUWs_OQHdy_zYWVYpRclxbc71mjQGAp8puKG2mLx8GYxqA4iuyHYGjTbCOZ9lPybgIE2NqSfU6HF6HCggkx9GZqxSiFLMsmvHEQg/s320/stone-casting.jpg" width="180" /></a></div>So it is with some resistance that I break from "creativity," my hands in the mud, and consider technique. I learned how to create moulds of my sculptures and how to cast them. I didn't see the point, frankly. Why would I want reproductions of my singular art? I had no inclination to disperse copies as Christmas gifts.<p></p><p>The primary purpose of taking a mould, from a cynical standpoint, is to be able to replicate one's clay sculpture in a material like bronze, for which one can charge exorbitant amounts of money.</p><p>But. As my stone composite shed its silicone lining, emerged from its plaster shell, a new sculpture was born. I understand now that each copy is its own original. Different pigment. Different mounting. Different material. Different finish. It expresses something different poised atop a traditional marble-like column than it will when I pour it in liquid glass. </p><p>I have learned that a mastery of technique allows artistry to flourish. As any violinist who dares to play Paganini. As any art forger whose work hangs in place of the original.</p><p>Gainza's novel blurred together so many different identities, past and present, history and fiction. Mariette Lydis was real. Borges was real. Adolfo Bioy Casares, also real. At the end of the day, most days, I think about making progress in art, and progress in love. I think about fireworks.</p><blockquote><p>They shared a hedonistic kind of love that wasn't passion but something calmer. In their official loves, it was different. 'Progress in love' — according to Wilcock — 'consists of successively finding people who are like gunshots, line cannon blasts, like nitroglycerine cartridges, like torpedoes, like atomic bombs, and, finally, like hydrogen bombs.' Oscar showed up at Montes de Oca one day, and it was fireworks.</p></blockquote></div>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-46278090283155933312022-06-11T10:48:00.002-04:002022-06-19T23:05:50.368-04:00Substance and essence<p>Dear Diary, It's been seven weeks since my last confession. I feel spent. Everything is good, but nothing is right.</p><blockquote><p>Once swallowed the piece of paper lodges in her oesophagus near her heart. Saliva-soaked. The specially prepared black ink dissolves slowly now, the letters losing their shapes. Within the human body, the word splits in two: substance and essence. When the former goes, the latter, formlessly abiding, may be absorbed into the body's tissues, since essences always seek carriers in matter — even if this is to be the cause of many misfortunes.</p></blockquote><p>Thus begins <i>The Books of Jacob</i>, by Olga Tokarczuk. This is the first book I opened in my new home. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimfYo0GqQ2SPR6_uCvBsaILYsWE4HAJl8AiI8YcbpJVW-NlnPsHnU_4NrT8lsGM09Dr-aEfMKYtxTPOFg7-05qOxE0avdlenQiRNkV4lF4Brqwb2YKuNlisq_K9tmEElXVYtfe4fkgV-hT1ygwK9k6vJYjo7U-fCHm4nzb2OIHMJIdr4510w/s499/TokarczukOlga_BooksOfJacob.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="499" data-original-width="309" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimfYo0GqQ2SPR6_uCvBsaILYsWE4HAJl8AiI8YcbpJVW-NlnPsHnU_4NrT8lsGM09Dr-aEfMKYtxTPOFg7-05qOxE0avdlenQiRNkV4lF4Brqwb2YKuNlisq_K9tmEElXVYtfe4fkgV-hT1ygwK9k6vJYjo7U-fCHm4nzb2OIHMJIdr4510w/s320/TokarczukOlga_BooksOfJacob.jpg" width="198" /></a></div>I have opened many books since then. I am unfocused.<p></p><p>I still put store by the significance of firsts. I considered which friends I would first welcome here, the first champagne we would drink, the energy that would fill this space. The first painting I would hang. I am sentimental about the first lover I have yet to bring to this home.</p><p>I harbour other superstitions. (Since when am I such a fool?) The keys were a sign. As I pulled them from my purse that first time, the chain pulled apart, keys clattered, and the Moroccan tassel fluttered to the floor. I don't know how I got in that first day. I have a million and five keys for this house, and only two of them fit one of the locks. Later that first day, I managed to snap the key to the basement door, still in its lock.</p><p>I have been beset by a million and five setbacks — mortgage complications, tax miscalculations, delivery delays, lost shipments, miscommunications. Any one of them is a barely perceptible glitch, but together they cause interference, a disruption; they give cause to take pause, reconsider the foundations. </p><p>I am reading, but very little. I have cast some sculptures and am eager to clear a studiospace. I am on an 824-day streak of German lessons, but my heart is no longer in it. I still work too much. I still engage in real estate porn, to reassure myself that I made the right decision. </p><p>Things that are missing:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>My hotel-brand bathrobe, I'm sure I saw it amid the bagged blankets, but they're essentially all unpacked now</li><li>The spare set of stone-carving tools, the ones in the cloth roll-up bag that I thought I could take to workshop because it wouldn't matter if any of them were inadvertently borrowed (maybe I took them that one day, maybe they were borrowed)</li><li>A mailing tube containing Polish poster art, including one for Verdi's Makbet, or was it Don Giovanni, I remember pulling them out of the closet in the old place, now I have wall space for them and they're nowhere, was the tube thrown out with the disassembled boxes </li><li>Romance, the ordinary kind, it doesn't have to be literary or heroic </li></ul><p></p><p>I still feel like an essence not fully settled into its carrier, perhaps because the carrier is not clearly defined. Remnants of the previous owner linger; my essence is confused by them, grazes past them, hesitates before setting down.</p><p>This home is vast and drafty and quirky, it needs my labour and love.</p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-89594919711663355362022-04-23T11:01:00.005-04:002022-04-23T11:03:56.358-04:00I am become the howling is become me<p><b></b></p><blockquote><p><b>gerald</b><br />I know I've been using a lot of WFH time but I checked with our ops team — technically there isn't a set limit on how much you can take</p><p><b>doug smorin<br /></b>"within reason" is the limit</p><p><b>gerald</b><br />look, I know you don't believe me when I say I'm imprisoned in our slack workspace</p><p><b>doug smorin</b><br />because it's literally unbelievable</p><p><b>gerald</b><br />and the firm doesn't have a disembodied consciousness sabbatical policy </p><p><b>doug smorin</b><br />you're doing great </p></blockquote><h3 style="text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfgo2TZb2XGoL1j2yKqbhhQW-Kj_3YDs3-JYCiLBWGL2F2O61rrFhCcd3IMdaQEcxn81WrEbsMA_48kgXWZjXmIZidHqkpFt04eubVOFoPe9cGiqmVt2_x07hz71TVVYmdAeOvkaK1JUsEm1L3sCtEefAsxYY68pIu9150gvftIldwya2jdw/s2550/KasulkeCalvin_SeveralPeopleAreTyping.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2550" data-original-width="1680" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfgo2TZb2XGoL1j2yKqbhhQW-Kj_3YDs3-JYCiLBWGL2F2O61rrFhCcd3IMdaQEcxn81WrEbsMA_48kgXWZjXmIZidHqkpFt04eubVOFoPe9cGiqmVt2_x07hz71TVVYmdAeOvkaK1JUsEm1L3sCtEefAsxYY68pIu9150gvftIldwya2jdw/w264-h400/KasulkeCalvin_SeveralPeopleAreTyping.jpg" width="264" /></a></div></h3><h3 style="text-align: left;">isabella, emily</h3><p><b>emily</b><br />Is this real?<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiyhX_6p73B-FvuyBJhoXLkbh6us6InIJx5rtBdGUt7P5A_OGmLoUPD-hSZayOJquYweDb5LMP-jnZmayxAkKI7N-DSgZpnMoynhenuAE0EpgwMiIeL8PpujjYQkXaG5XEIcVgZPrNn02wfMHlL9DrtMQbEIaxkvBrjp13gCjKZlEh3q2THJQ" style="clear: left; display: inline; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: center;"><img alt="" data-original-height="57" data-original-width="397" height="46" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiyhX_6p73B-FvuyBJhoXLkbh6us6InIJx5rtBdGUt7P5A_OGmLoUPD-hSZayOJquYweDb5LMP-jnZmayxAkKI7N-DSgZpnMoynhenuAE0EpgwMiIeL8PpujjYQkXaG5XEIcVgZPrNn02wfMHlL9DrtMQbEIaxkvBrjp13gCjKZlEh3q2THJQ" width="320" /></a><br />I kind of hope so. Thought you might know + wanted an excuse to say hi :wave:</p><p><b>isabella</b><br />haha wow it's real -- had to look it up. It's even Paris, not Bucharest (which was my first guess)</p><p>started reading <i><a href="https://techcrunch.com/2021/10/19/several-people-are-typing-is-the-slack-workspace-of-your-worst-nightmares/">Several People Are Typing</a></i> this morning -- makes me kinda miss the office, and how slack was a complement to actual physical office space, not this separate thing that we're all swallowed up in</p><p><b>emily</b><br />OMG that sounds amazing. I have a real soft spot for work/office culture novels.</p><p><b>isabella</b><br />I've been literally lol-ing all morning. Good things it's short though -- the slack-style will surely become tiresome after 100 pages</p><p><b>emily</b><br />I miss slacking somebody while staring directly at them :lizard_stare:</p><p><b>isabella</b><br />/giphy stare</p><p></p><blockquote><p><b>tripp</b><br />what is a workplace but a cult where everyone gets paid, really?</p><p>[...]</p><p><b>Beverley</b><br />I meant to ask if a Managing Principal was higher or lower ranking than a Director.<br /><br /><b>tripp</b><br />see, that exactly my point. we have a byzantine hierarchical structure<br />we have a SPECIAL PURPOSE, which we call our MISSION STATEMENT and slap it right on the website<br />Even the language of employment is cult-y! We're not employees, we're a "team." That's only two notches away from just calling us "acolytes" or something. And the stuff we supposedly devote ourselves to, like "innovation" or "influence" of "engagement" <br />how is that any different from telling everyone you're a Prophet of the Coming Storm?</p><p><b>Beverley</b><br />That would look great on a business card.</p></blockquote><h3 style="text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://slack-imgs.com/?c=1&o1=ro&url=https%3A%2F%2Fmedia2.giphy.com%2Fmedia%2FoSYflamt3IEjm%2Fgiphy.gif%3Fcid%3D6104955eq8y9i2mizyju1olge4wy9x1zrwqy1s79zk2xjaku%26rid%3Dgiphy.gif%26ct%3Dg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="480" data-original-width="480" height="200" src="https://slack-imgs.com/?c=1&o1=ro&url=https%3A%2F%2Fmedia2.giphy.com%2Fmedia%2FoSYflamt3IEjm%2Fgiphy.gif%3Fcid%3D6104955eq8y9i2mizyju1olge4wy9x1zrwqy1s79zk2xjaku%26rid%3Dgiphy.gif%26ct%3Dg" width="200" /></a></div></h3><h3 style="text-align: left;">#talk-books</h3><p><b>isabella</b><br />hey has anyone read Calvin Kasulke's <i>Several People Are Typing</i>?<br />(oh, look! several people are actually typing!)</p><p><b>first</b><br />Hi! I'd ask for advice about e-reader? Does anyone here use such as Kobo or Kindle. I have question like can use external pdf. What should I get as a first e reader :shrug:</p><p><b>marc</b><br />emergency, drop everything https://youtu.be/6a-k6eaT-jQ :heart:</p><p><b>isabella</b><br />ok so this guy gerald was trying to share a spreadsheet and he accidentally uploaded himself into slack, like his physical body is comatose in his apartment, but his mind is melding with slackbot and his productivity goes through the roof, but all his coworkers think it's just a bit while they're all wfh </p><p>:eyeroll: sanderson :vomiting_cowboy:</p><p><b>pavel</b><br />Boox products are good.</p><p><b>isabella</b><br />And then there's lydia, who may or may not exist, but I immediately pictured her as our lydia, with the attitude and the smarts, but maybe it's slackbot impersonating lydia<br /></p><p><b></b></p><blockquote><p><b>lydia</b><br />it's like it's coming from inside of me!!<br />like the echo from the constant howling is reverberating inside my rib cage??<br />but instead of getting softer and more distant it just grows louder and more, present??<br />you know that feeling??<br />like my skeletal structure is just an instrument for the howling to blast through and soon it'll burst through sinew and bone and rupture by flesh beyond recognition??</p><p><b>Beverley</b><br />So I am also WFH except when I'm offline from 2-4:30!</p><p><b>lydia</b><br />so I don't think I can make it in today!!<br /></p><p><b>rob</b><br />wow<br />I mean, dang<br />@lydia do you need to go to urgent care or something</p><p><b>kerolyn</b><br />???</p><p><b>rob</b><br />sounds serious<br /></p><p><b>tripp</b><br />lol</p><p><b>lydia</b><br />it's like<br />I am become the howling is become me!!<br />you know!!</p><p></p></blockquote><p>It's weirdly philosophical (and hilarious), there's this discussion between gerald and slackbot about sunsets, <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/books/page-turner/reading-a-novel-set-entirely-in-slack">which evokes the concept of the "stuplime."</a> so slackbot shows gerald where they keep the sunsets and he "sees" -- as a disembodied consciousness -- ALL the sunsets, and then he becomes sunset :whoa_keanu:<br />"psychic splintering"</p><p>/giphy sunset</p><p><b>first</b><br />cool<br /><br /><b>isabella</b><br />highly recommend (but maybe not to people who don't use slack. or work in an office. also highly relatable re marketing department day-to-day)<br />stuplime</p><p><a href="https://www.penguinrandomhouse.ca/books/671445/several-people-are-typing-by-calvin-kasulke/9780593313534/excerpt">Excerpt</a>.</p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-83354175149861551782022-04-02T15:15:00.001-04:002022-04-02T15:15:21.296-04:00Nothing goes anywhere<blockquote><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivZswgTiqWhG4rosHHDttqllTViyGnVtGUTA-ibt7HXFC8MZZ3iXcuOYUtAIDp48aXAvYFmkB4HlVVtAKgYGPBtCjgFiC1Aqp6Bj9kiv8HeLXeT6MUIu5q8VFrzW4N2JFBZQHaHIrkTGINWfTrsxEm6dk3klFTdMxTiZXaKg_Z4-A-B9CDbw/s2720/BelorusetsYevgenia_LuckyBreaks.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2720" data-original-width="1760" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivZswgTiqWhG4rosHHDttqllTViyGnVtGUTA-ibt7HXFC8MZZ3iXcuOYUtAIDp48aXAvYFmkB4HlVVtAKgYGPBtCjgFiC1Aqp6Bj9kiv8HeLXeT6MUIu5q8VFrzW4N2JFBZQHaHIrkTGINWfTrsxEm6dk3klFTdMxTiZXaKg_Z4-A-B9CDbw/w259-h400/BelorusetsYevgenia_LuckyBreaks.jpg" width="259" /></a></div>"You're trying to get away? It's no use! I too was trying to get away, to ride away, to move to Lviv, or to Kyiv, to anywhere else. But you can't get away. There's a moment when cars stop driving out of town, and later you find out that commuter buses and jitney vans haven't been running for a long time, and then it dawns on you that you have remained forever where, in fact, you had been lingering merely in order to leave that place at some decisive moment. You are now stuck, you've become a hostage, a prisoner of people and circumstances, just like in the movies you used to watch, except that now you've become an unwilling actor in that movie, only to discover, to your astonishment, that there isn't and never was an art more petty, more heartless than contemporary cinema, all contemporary cinema without exception, including of course documentaries. Because when you wake up inside a work of whatever genre — comedic, heroic, documentary, military — the movie, to your astonishment, turns out to be unmoving, an infinitely protracted, monotonous, corrosive nightmare. And I would have really liked, with utmost sincerity, I would have liked to believe, as with any normal film, that this nightmare followed a plot development with a climax, an ending, and even an epilogue, but, from my observations, nothing of the sort takes place. Nothing goes anywhere. Nothing ever come close to this supposedly ancient, time-tested formulaic plotting."<p></p></blockquote><p>— from <i><a href="https://www.ndbooks.com/book/lucky-breaks/">Lucky Breaks</a></i>, by Yevgenia Belorusets.</p><p>Written in Russian, but with a Ukrainian title, by a Ukrainian in Ukraine, and released by a Ukrainian publisher in 2018. </p><p><a href="https://www.musicandliterature.org/features/2019/4/29/yevgenia-belorusets-two-stories-from-fortunate-fallings">Excerpt</a>.</p><p>Translator <a href="https://www.ndbooks.com/article/eugene-ostashevsky-on-lucky-breaks/">Eugene Ostashevsky writes</a>:</p><blockquote><p>My first paper copies of <i>Lucky Breaks</i> came in the mail last night. I sent a photo of them to Yevgenia in Kyiv, with the words "The book is out!" She wrote back an hour later: "We are under fire!" I am writing these sentences on the morning of February 24th, 2022, the day that Russia — the country I was born in — has perfidiously invaded Ukraine, the country of my ancestors. </p></blockquote><p>Artforum: <a href="https://www.artforum.com/slant/a-wartime-diary-by-yevgenia-belorusets-88035">Letters from Kyiv: A wartime diary by Yevgenia Belorusets </a><br />The Atlantic: <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/books/archive/2022/03/yevgenia-belorusets-writer-ukraine-war/629380/">Her World Began to Collapse, So She Started Keeping a Diary</a></p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-84065795211176748102022-03-30T23:50:00.000-04:002022-03-30T23:50:58.447-04:00A gallery of monsters<blockquote><p></p>If each of us drew our own body as if by dictation from our own internal perspective, we would produce a gallery of monsters!<p></p></blockquote><blockquote><p>— from <i><a href="https://magnificentoctopus.blogspot.com/2021/04/the-decomposition-of-my-face.html">The Sexual Life of Catherine M.</a></i>, by Catherine Millet. </p></blockquote><p>I'd been planning the third major sculpture for months. (<a href="https://magnificentoctopus.blogspot.com/2021/05/the-first-lump-of-clay-peter.html">Peter</a> was my first; the second was <a href="https://magnificentoctopus.blogspot.com/2020/07/the-life-its-tolerable-to-live.htm">my tree lady</a>.) I wanted to develop technique. I wanted to stretch beyond what I'd been taught about form. I wanted to create art.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWNVvR0RBRICR5zj9gBvni58NVToSzeIcvs8nErwSFTtjphXsy8a9jpigb1FEoZa6eXu1emSqVPQxrSaM-J5S802hM1LD-tN94cBOQUGVUKuru_EUMAoC5TkwRZtgB7OfDdk5QiHGbk8gOgVcOmqDFqQ8xkn904ndX_LsBmwXcV3LeqOXTAg/s4032/IMG-8562.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3024" data-original-width="4032" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWNVvR0RBRICR5zj9gBvni58NVToSzeIcvs8nErwSFTtjphXsy8a9jpigb1FEoZa6eXu1emSqVPQxrSaM-J5S802hM1LD-tN94cBOQUGVUKuru_EUMAoC5TkwRZtgB7OfDdk5QiHGbk8gOgVcOmqDFqQ8xkn904ndX_LsBmwXcV3LeqOXTAg/w400-h300/IMG-8562.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><p>This project had purpose. A self-portrait. I established some objectives.</p><p>1. It had to look like me. At least in its early stages. I would allow for it to morph into something more symbolic, expressive, a distortion of me. But its basis had to have sufficient me-ness that I could not deny to myself that it was me.</p><p>2. It had to express joy. Pain is easy. It's unique, powerful, exquisite. But Tolstoy was wrong about happiness. Happiness is also nuanced. And it's difficult to express artistically without being saccharine or facile. I needed to preserve something joyous, but I needed to find it first. This was a pandemic project, after all. (I considered some secret joy, some orgasmic expression.)</p><p>3. It had to represent me symbolically. It was at this level I thought art manifested. I wanted it to be a self-portrait from the inside out. Maybe my brain spilling out. (What do my migraines look like?) Maybe my head split open and my brain obviously set wrong. Maybe in place of my brain, my heart.</p><p>This is what I thought about throughout the summer of 2020. I procured materials, I waited for winter. I broke open the package of clay in early November. It was US election night, I had the tv on, I needed art to counterbalance reality, I wondered if that made my art a political act.</p><p>For a few weeks I obsessed over cheekbones, the angle of my nose, the whorls of my ears. And then, quite unexpectedly, I fell in love, or something. I felt both seen and not yet fully seen, and that it didn't matter whether I was seen or not. Suddenly seeing didn't matter, feeling mattered. I thought more about seeing, without actually seeing.</p><p>Very coincidentally, I'd started reading John Berger's <i>Ways of Seeing</i> at about that time:</p><p></p><blockquote><p>A woman must continually watch herself. She is almost continually accompanied by her own image of herself. [...] </p><p>One might simplify this by saying: <i>men act</i> and <i>women appear</i>. Men look at women. Women watch themselves being looked at. This determines not only most relations between men and women but also the relation of women to themselves. The surveyor of woman in herself is male: the surveyed female. Thus she turns herself into an object — and most particularly an object of vision: a sight.</p></blockquote><p></p><p>Love didn't last, but I had projects to keep me busy. I kept thinking about how I was seen, how I saw myself. I started seeing outside myself, in a way that I hadn't in a very long time. Among all the ways of seeing, I started seeing my way.</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEignPkLiuu5uiITQJGn1ukOhZC2TBDpydmRW4KZQmgP7jYs1XUW8WU6T2ZtwsiSMXsFmyVq1WZZ3exQYjpQqnbm6dXIrwtkX9qxM1Bfnz7hXqBDjMLOEEY8jgNaUbgtM_NjRForeM1zAii5qKE228PqdQEbc9SqiAns4GN_tcDuVYanqI0UAg/s900/self-sculpture-collage.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="800" data-original-width="900" height="356" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEignPkLiuu5uiITQJGn1ukOhZC2TBDpydmRW4KZQmgP7jYs1XUW8WU6T2ZtwsiSMXsFmyVq1WZZ3exQYjpQqnbm6dXIrwtkX9qxM1Bfnz7hXqBDjMLOEEY8jgNaUbgtM_NjRForeM1zAii5qKE228PqdQEbc9SqiAns4GN_tcDuVYanqI0UAg/w400-h356/self-sculpture-collage.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>I learned how to handle clay, maintain its wetness. I learned how to work it when it is hard (the work of carving). I learned how to perform a lobotomy. I learned about shapeshifting. I can point to this sculpted portrait's objective faults: the face too flat, the ears too big, the mouth too thin. Too unfocused. Too ambitious. Too inauthentic, even if conceived in an authentic kind of way. <p></p><p>I studied my perception of myself. I created a very long neck, not because it was realistic or particularly aesthetic. Likely this was a subconscious expression of the distance between my brain and my body.</p><p></p><p>I failed on all three objectives. (Except maybe the first. And the second and third.) I lacked patience, persistence, and discipline. (But this project served its purpose.)</p><p>I am listening to a <a href="https://brenebrown.com/podcast/how-sorrow-and-longing-make-us-whole-part-1-of-2/">podcast</a> in which is discussed the drive to create beauty out of pain (and I think: beauty in ugliness and imperfection — <a href="http://magnificentoctopus.blogspot.com/2022/03/a-convulsive-act.html">wabi-sabi</a>); how Leonard Cohen makes you want to die and spread your legs at the same time; how obsession with a thing is often an obsession with what the thing represents.</p><p>I am learning to refocus on form. Art will manifest itself somehow through clarity of thought. I am learning to be naked.</p><p></p><blockquote><p>To be naked is to be oneself. [...]</p><p>Nakedness reveals itself. Nudity is placed on display.</p><p>To be naked is to be without disguise. </p></blockquote><p></p><p>This morning, I woke up and looked at it anew, and I smashed it.</p><p>Time to start again.</p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5767816.post-85277044635185736682022-03-26T14:34:00.001-04:002022-03-26T14:34:44.215-04:00The swelling of proportions<blockquote><p>I'd gone to France for work, to a party, in a castle decked out in a way I'd never seen. I'd had a fair amount to drink, and I latched onto someone who worked for an important newspaper, unlike me in those days, when I slaved away a a meager publication. The guy was my age, I'd known him for a long time. He made me laugh all night, I drank and laughed, and for the first time, I cheated on my husband. And it was amazing, really amazing, but not the sex, I care next to nothing about sex. I remember, instead, the swelling of proportions that followed. I walked down tree-lined avenues at seven in the morning, the air was lovely, and I felt I'd grown as tall as a giant. But then the sense of swelling proportions dissolved, and I started to feel terrible. Not about my husband, honestly, I didn't feel the least but guilty. In any case, I believed I had the right to enjoy life.</p></blockquote><p>I think about the care some people take, or not, with my secrets. Those intimate divulgences. Do they mull them over, mystified? How does it change their view of me? Do my secrets shock them, or do they puzzle over why I bother to keep them close? Do they hold them for me, or spill them out? I have so very few.</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilFfiAFn3wpCLetjIhvKLi-BktDoFY-awvWe5F8ufPLgWtIkcazaGx8c5SbMIbpfXYTcpIKQhznnlP_KykxfJvfD_H04qq5Ox_5WzRIUGDxdfmezXlx75UEgjdgPJ9DKgCC5kRghhvSCTLhQ9vwdeAoFJPR6Q9w3U2g7qrrcPeT3eMozvRzA/s933/StarnoneDomenico_Trust.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="933" data-original-width="600" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilFfiAFn3wpCLetjIhvKLi-BktDoFY-awvWe5F8ufPLgWtIkcazaGx8c5SbMIbpfXYTcpIKQhznnlP_KykxfJvfD_H04qq5Ox_5WzRIUGDxdfmezXlx75UEgjdgPJ9DKgCC5kRghhvSCTLhQ9vwdeAoFJPR6Q9w3U2g7qrrcPeT3eMozvRzA/w258-h400/StarnoneDomenico_Trust.jpg" width="258" /></a></div>I think about the secrets I know about others.<p></p><p>I stumbled across <i><a href="https://www.europaeditions.com/book/9781609457037/trust">Trust</a></i>, by Domenico Starnone, on just such a day when I was wandering down old familiar streets, with a swelling of proportions, a swelling of memories, thinking about someone's secrets, and realizing I couldn't tell anybody about them. That someone would never know if I did. Nobody would care, about the secret, or about its telling; nothing would change. But it's a bond, my honour.</p><p>(His dark secret only made me love him more. It was the small secrets, the insignificant omissions, that drove a wedge between us. But I wonder if he thinks about it sometimes, the fact that I know.)</p><p>The tension of <i>Trust</i> depends on this pact between lovers: they confide in each other their most shameful secret, "something that would destroy your life if anyone came to know it," to bond them forever. Yet, a few days later, Pietro and Teresa break up.</p><p>We never know what they told each other. We know Pietro thought Teresa's secret awful. And Pietro lived in fear that Teresa might reveal his own shame. It's something she holds over him, even after his death.</p><p>The book unfolds in three parts, spanning decades and shifting perspectives, from Pietro, to his grown daughter, to old woman Teresa. Pietro's life is mostly unremarkable, a mostly undistinguished career, some minor celebrity, a typical family life with an ambitious but disappointed wife. </p><p>His failings are also mostly unremarkable, and perhaps typical of his generation. Teresa was his student, and he felt threatened by her, diminished by her. In turn he diminished his wife, who was surely capable of great successes but was burdened by the traditional demands of marriage and motherhood. </p><blockquote><p>At this point I must pause for a moment to draw attention to the fact that, in that moment, I totally gave in to the truth of a cliché. I thought: we fall in love with people who seem real, but don't really exist. We invent them. I don't know this self-assured woman, who speaks to me in such clipped sentences, this fearless, scathing woman. She's not Nadia. There's the person we love and there's the real person, but as long as we love the person, we never see the real person underneath. We inevitably waste so much time, I said to myself, loving people. These past few years, I happily invented a person. I've taken great pleasure entering into the body of a pale watercolor of my own making.</p></blockquote><p>Pietro did not think well of himself, and he shouldn't, though he didn't give these matters much thought. With an incomplete understanding of his inadequacies, but his sense of entitlement thoroughly offended, he rather blamed the unjustness of his lot in life on the socioeconomics of his upbringing.</p><p>A psychological descendant of Alberto Moravia's <i>Contempt</i>, <i>Trust</i> starts like this, stylistically modern, breathless. </p><blockquote><p>Love, well, what to say? We talk about it a lot, but I don't think I've used the word much, on the contrary, I doubt it's ever been of any use me, though I've loved, of course, I've loved, I've loved until I've lost my mind and my wits. Love as I've known it, in fact, is a lava of crude life that burns the refined one, an eruption that obliterates understanding and piety, reason and rights, geography and history, sickness and health, richer and poorer, exceptions and the rules. All that's left is a yearning that twists and distorts, an obsession without a cure: where is she, where isn't she, what's she thinking, doing, what did she say, what did she really mean when she said that, what isn't she telling me, was she as happy to see me as I was to see her, and feeling better now that I've left, or has my absence debilitated her instead, as hers debilitates me, annihilating me, stripping me of all the energy that her presence, on the other hand, generates, and what am I without her, a stopped clock on the corner of a busy street, oh her voice on the the other hand, oh to stand next to her, to diminish the distance between us, reduce it to nothing, erase kilometers, meters, centimeters, millimeters, and melt, lose myself, stop being myself, in fact, it already feels like I was never myself other than within her, in the pleasure of her, and this makes me proud, it cheers me up, and it depressed me, it saddens me, and then it jolts me again, it electrifies me, I care so much for her, yes, all I want is the best for her, always, whatever happens, even if she turns cold, even if she loves other people, even if she humiliates me, even if she strips me of everything, even of the very capacity to care for her. </p></blockquote><p><b>Reviews</b> <br /><a href="https://shinynewbooks.co.uk/trust-by-domenico-starnone">Shiny New Books</a> <br /><a href="https://lareviewofbooks.org/article/the-terrible-powers-of-self-deception-on-domenico-starnones-trust/">LARB</a>: The Terrible Powers of Self-Deception: On Domenico Starnone's "Trust"<br /><a href="https://www.clereviewofbooks.com/home/domenico-starnone-trust-review">Cleveland Review of Books</a>: In Search of Self through the Other: On Domenico Starnone's "Trust" </p>Isabella Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10735198478395875257noreply@blogger.com0