Tuesday, January 18, 2005

Dealing

Helena has been Super Amazing Toddler the last little while. (Except for the part where she wakes up at 5:10. Every. Effing. Morning.) She's well behaved, attentive, patient, affectionate, funny, and really funny — all round sweetness.

At daycare, she's Little Miss Sociable. When I picked her up yesterday, she was decked out in a velvety shawl, one glove, and glittery heels. (How'd she get so girly?) She'd been hosting a tea party all day in the corner; her playmates would come and go as they pleased, while Helena served tea, coffee, juice, your choice.

Helena says hello to all the other parents. She waves or offers her hand in greeting. They all stop to chat with her. In the cloakroom, to their little snowpants-challenged terrors they point out Helena, good-natured, cooperative, and patient. (She can be a handful to dress in the morning, but at the end of the day she seems bemused that anyone would put up such a fuss.)

Helena certainly knows something about "dealing" with people. Something skipped a generation.

Her eye is healing, but she still looks like she's been in a fight. (We know better.)


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We're reading Bootsie Barker Bites, illustrated by Peggy Rathmann. Although it's recommended for ages 4—8, it's perfect read-aloud material.

This book, a delight. The narrator — a five year-old would-be scientist — is tortured by Bootsie, who keeps claiming she is a dinosaur and will eat the narrator. Finally, our heroine thinks of a new game: paleontology. Dinosaur-Bootsie is frightened, and runs away, hopefully never to return.

I love how unapologetic it is. You don't have to play with kids you don't like. You don't have to understand where they're coming from. You don't have to learn that they are human and really nice on the inside. What you have to do is stand up for yourself.


Helena loves it. She says "Bootsie" with a charming French accent. My only concern is that Helena seems to identify more with Bootsie than with the intended protagonist, the terrorized narrator. (Our fault, I guess, for encouraging Horrible Noisy All-Devouring Monster games.)

The pictures of Bootsie's out-of-control menace for the time being elicit puzzlement from Helena. How to explain that it's not "sad," and it's more complicated than "angry"?

This book is recommended for helping youngsters resolve conflicts and deal with bullies. I don't believe Helena will have issues on either side of that coin. Regardless, Bootsie Barker is lots of fun.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

How's this for nerdy: I look at the picture and say "Ooh! They've got the Cambridge Encyclopedia of Language! Looks like the same edition we have!" And what are the big antiquarian-looking tomes just at the lower left corner?

--R

Isabella said...

How's this for nerdy: The background books were actually a consideration in choosing which photo to post.

It's a 3-volume Webster's Third New International Dictionary and Seven Language Dictionary, 1966, which match the Encyclopedia Britannica set my parents had invested in. Not a great dictionary, but I own several for the sake of comparison.

Müzikdüde said...

Oh, I do hope the book addresses squeezing rather than jerking.
Too many innocent bystanders are injured or killed because of improper trigger control.

Sigmund, Carl and Alfred said...

I can never, ever, follow John in the comment section. Ever!

That said, prediction time.

You're grooming the next Martha Stewart. Don't fight it, it's going to happpen.

I'll need a source for good pastichiki and kremovka down the road.

So, I have an ulterior motive- sue me.

Isabella said...

I rather tend to believe she'll be good at fund-raising, then feeding the hungry.

Suzanne said...

Another nerd! I have the language encyclopedia and the Safire book.

But a confession---I've only just skimmed the encyclopedia...

Aussie Mama said...

I love that post. Several years ago I purchased a book called 'Sweet Dreams,' it was a hard cover preschoolers picture book, intended to scare away monster dreams, commonly known in the adult world as nightmares.

The book actually gave my son nightmares, as he told me it gave him knowledge of such monsters he previously hadn't been aware of. The book was swiftly banished.